okay so my bsf is back (i think) and apparently the reason why he didn't speak to me for A WHOLE MONTH is because he thought i didnt wanna speak to him?? but i did!! but to be fair i WAS being kinda dry and passive aggressive but to be even MORE fair he left me on seen for like 4 days before he last texted me (in which he left me on seen for a month) and most of the time he would only text me if he was complaining about his bf or something and he started to become kinda distant after he got a bf and he would most of the time talk about him and it pissed me off soooowoshajsnnsnsnd is this MY fault or what??