Excerpt from everything I never told anyone

3-month rule?

I personally think that the 3-month rule isn’t prerequisite after a break up. Everyone has a different timeframe for moving on— some people can move on after few weeks, months, or years. It relies on how they will handle the situation and how they are willing to give themselves time and space to heal.

“but at least pay respect to your ex”

No. What they do after break up is already none of your business. You can't just say, “hey, you have to wait for 3 months before dating again because your ex is still moving on” it doesn't work that way, bestie. You were an ex for a reason. It’s perfectly okay if they’re capable of recovering faster. What you feel isn’t their responsibility anymore.

However, if you know that you aren't capable of loving someone else yet, do not enter into a relationship. Don't make your next partner a rebound. Never make them feel like they're responsible for your healing.