things about my sexuality and gender identity

2 0 0
                                    

Ok to start this I guess, before anyone bashes me, I have a girlfriend but I will tell you about my sexuality to explain things before assuming it.

Yes I'm aro/ace/pan

Aromantic means having little to no romantic attraction

Asexual means having little to no sexual attraction

Pan is being gender blind which goes with the fact I'm aro/ace and I look for someone's personality and I don't necessarily care for relationships before I was with my gf hell before I never cared or wanted to be in one before I met my gf and honestly never to rarely ever had attraction to people In general.

I'm also transmasc/non-bianary

Trans means identifying as the opposite sex you were born with

Non-bianary means identifying as neither male nor female gender

It's kinda makes me a demi-boy even though I identify as a male there is some times where I don't identify with male nor female.

Back to my sexuality before people say I can't be "aromantic and asexual if I have a partner" yes I can remember the words little to no attraction, in this case I still get attraction towards my gf but no one else, also you can be attracted to someone without being like "I want a relationship with them" and do I feel like I've done my gf wrong by being born like this, yes I do but she's ok with it, because she knows I do love her, and just because my sexuality is wonky doesn't mean I don't love her.

I might delete this later because I know a lot of people will hate me for this, mainly because people who know about aro/ace people just assume their heartless or can't be in relationships just because they rarely get romantic or sexual attraction.

I'm also pretty sure people will hate me because I make x reader things when I'm in a relationship even though it's fictional characters, keep in mind my gf is attracted to fictional characters as well and so am I and it doesn't really matter to us because the characters aren't real.

things about me/ask me questionsWhere stories live. Discover now