Become The Femme Fatale

9. Show up in unusual places

You don’t need to go anywhere that doesn’t make you feel safe, but you try to spend time in more unique and less expected places. This is the best way to meet more interesting people, after all. Visit an obscure, artsy coffee shop, a clandestine nightclub or speakeasy, or even an eccentric antique shop. Don’t make it obvious when you enter or exit a new place, and work on slinking in and out of rooms.

Pick places with dim lighting to help maintain your dark, mysterious image.
You can find a place you like, but mix up your haunts so you don't become a regular and you do keep people guessing. For example, skip your morning coffee for a brunch two cities away.