Every Girl Deserves Happiness

Moving On

Ladies, Don't allow a guy who did you wrong, lead you on, told you lies, and made you cry continue to make your life miserable. The first step is to get away from him. By any means necessary because the sooner you remove him from your life, the sooner you will find true happiness again. He messed up, he made a lot of mistakes and he hurt you way more then he should have. You cannot keep allowing him to continue treating you like this when there's so many other guys out there who would do anything to have a girl like you to love on and take care of. You deserve to be happy again, you deserve to be appreciated again, and you deserve to have someone in your life who wants to make you feel safe and secure. You deserve to have your heart back in one piece, not broken and bruised. You deserve to have someone who's gonna be there for you no matter what. But at the end of the day, it's YOU that has to decide what's best and what's needed.

Don't stick around hoping that he'll change because if he truly cared for you, he wouldn't be mistreating you and making your life hell to begin with. Understand when a guy's intentions are NOT having your best interest at heart.

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Honestly, If she treated you half as bad as you treated her, you wouldn't be able to take it. You can't continue to put a girl down, treat her like shit, and not expect for her to reach that breaking point and go off.

A girl can only take so much before they finally break down.

A lot of guys don't really understand how good of a woman they really have. You have a girl who freaking loves you and would do anything for you, but sometimes you take her for granted and don't fully appreciate her. Everything she does for you is out of love, and because she wants to do it. She DOESN'T have to do anything, remember that!!! Instead of making her feel like her efforts go unnoticed or unappreciated, how about letting her know every once in a while "hey babe, I really do appreciate everything you do for me". Anything. It doesn't matter if its something as simple as that. Whenever she feels more appreciated and loved for what she does, she's gonna do even more for you. At the end of the day she does whatever she can to make sure you are happy, so how about making her day sometime too and make her happy.

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Guys: If you've already found a new girl whenever you and her just recently broke up not too long ago, don't you think that's a little too quickly? It makes her question if you actually cared about her to begin with. She feels so stupid right now because while you're enjoying your new girl, she's still sad over you. When she found out, she hated you so much because she felt betrayed, she felt lied to, and she felt used. How could you have gotten over her so fast while she still loves you just the same? How could you be laying with a new girl already when she still can't see herself with anyone else but you? How could you be happy with someone new when she's miserable without you right now? She doesn't even know what to feel right now because she's so conflicted on the inside. Was it all just a lie? Did you mean anything you said to her while being with her? Has she been wasting her time on you? For her to see you happy and already moved on to someone new completely kills her on the inside because all of the feelings she had for you, everything she said to you, and all the time she spent with you to her, was genuine because she actually cared and loved you. She didn't feel that she was wasting her time, but now she knows the truth. No matter how bad it hurts her, given time eventually she will be okay. Her heart is shattered, and all she can really do now is pick up the pieces, move on, and try to heal.

But hey, if your new girl doesn't work out, don't expect for her to welcome you back with open arms as if nothing ever happened. As if you didn't jump right into a new relationship with another girl, while she still had a lot of feelings for you. Just because you two broke up or needed space, doesn't mean that you should have gave up on her like you did. Obviously she still wanted you to be a part of her life, but you pretty much showed her how unimportant she was to you by moving on so quickly.

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-Cam