The Moon Under The Dark

5 || Self confidence 🫀

"Before loving someone, learn to love yourself in order to be strong during your alone and darkest times." - Author.

Alot of people nowdays I must say are pretty much confident, but of course there are still people who aren't!

Many people are also feared or scared of other people's judgement towards their looks, actions, hobbies or the things they like but I think that there's no reason to care about other people's judgement depending on each and every situation!

We humans are born is such a different and unique ways such as our beauty and talents, instead of being ashamed of it embrace it and show your uniqueness with enthusiasm.

Yes, some people might be judgemental but it is no reason to let their judgement stop you from being you! You have a purpose in this world, a purpose that will take time and patience to complete, a purpose that you can't let people stop you from doing and caring for their harsh judgement towards you can stop you from that.

The purpose you have in this world is to reach your goals and achieve things using your own talent and things you enjoy or passionate about, that's part of yourself too.

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Questions, answers and tips!

• What is confidence?

- Confidence for me is of course a feeling if loving yourself because of your uniqueness, beauty, likings, personality and more. Confidence is something that brings joy towards ourselves without other people making us do so.

Confidence can be something that's difficult to achieve for some people because they always have some little imperfections that makes them insecure or have low esteem of themselves but I think that it is no reason to stop yourself from loving yourself!

Confidence isn't only about beauty of course, it's also about how you do in doing tasks or situation and at school, work or any types of places where you have to do something by yourself which brings you nervousness or makes you feel self conscious about yourself.

•What are the benefits of being confident about yourself?

- It is rather impressive for some people to see others feeling so confident about themselves because there are tons of people in the society who likes to bring down others

Loving yourself or being confident can cause people to like you for your energy and the level of how much love you have for yourself without other people giving it to you causing them to compliment you or think so high of you.

Being confident of course can cause some people to be rude to you and say such harmful words but I think that they just say that to level up their confidence themselves and bring you down, those people are the people we shouldn't pay attention too much since their words can be unforgettable in our minds.

Showing your confidence to others will bring inspiration to them and cause their self esteem to be just as yours too!

Being confident can also help you to put on some clothes without having second thoughts about other people's opinion or complimenting yourself just because others can't appreciate some things about you.

Confidence can not only help you with your own body and face but it also helps you to complete your takes easier without feeling nervous or such as answering at recitations on classes, reporting on classes or showing a presentation!

• Is it hard to be confident?

- For me, it really depends on the person. Some people might find it hard to be confident themselves because they have received bad judgement by other people or they're having a hard time appreciating and accepting their imperfections.