Real talk

Nudity During Pride Parade.

Tw: Homophobia , Misgendering 

pa·rade/pəˈrād/noun1.a public procession, especially one celebrating a special day or event

 My thoughts of this whole thing at the end 

 I was hanging with my friend and he is trans and he was wearing a trans colored choker with a shirt that said love is love. We were approached by a guy yk those tiktokers that approach lgbt+ people and ask them questions

And he started to ask my friend all these questions and then misgendered him calling him a she/her and my friend looked at me signalling he was uncomfortable and I was trying to stay out of the conversation because I hate talking to new people

But I stepped in and I said "please don't misgendered my friend he is uncomfortable" and he laughed and started to ask if I was part of the LGBT I nodded and he asked "what do u THINK your gender is" I was taken back but I quietly answered gender fluid non-binary he asked "what does that mean" I told him "it means I prefer they/them pronouns but I sometimes use he/him pronouns " he then continued to misgender me to belittle me and embarrass me

He asked "what does your mother think of her little girl being cursed and poisoned?" I was quite and then answered "my mother is dead and I'm not cursed or poisoned" he continued to say "well yes you are because you are sick in your mind you are a female what is your sexuality" I said pansexual he continued to say " your role is to have children with a man you can't do that with a woman"

I told him I do not wish to have children and I am dating someone he told me "to a man?" And shook my head no and held onto my friend because I was on the verge of a break down and he asked "should a 12 year old get a tattoo" I shook my head no he said "should a 12 year old be able to go under surgery to be trans " again I shook my head no and said "I believe decisions like that shouldn't be made until they are a adult and fully developed there are other ways to be trans by using a binder or doing pitch changes for your voice " he laughed and said "should u take kids to a pride parade" I thought about it and said "it matters on the child's choice if they want to go or not" he looked me dead in the eye and said "should men and woman be allowed to show their penis and boobs in a pride parade" I shook my head no and said that "a parade is a celebration of freedom and victory LGBT people have suffered so much just to be seen gay marriage was just allowed gay people suffer to this day they should also be allowed to be happy a pride parade is to celebrate that gay people have rights now not to show off their bodies" 

After he got to close and asked "so your homophobic" I started to cry and my friend held me and told him to fuck off and we went home and he dropped me off.

That is what i texted my friend explaining the whole situation 

Look im not homophobic Im Pansexual Poly, Non-binary genderfluid. In no fucking world would i be Homophobic. The pride parades are to celebrate the freedom and rights people part of the LGBT+ community have. Lgbt+ was a sin in so many eyes so many people died for their gender identity or sexuality . It is not fucking right that gay marriage was allowed on June 26, 2015 it was a fight im sure to get gay marriage allowed.

I am not transphobic but i do think  that children under 17 years of age should not be going under surgery to change their body they arent even fully developed. there are other ways to hide a chest or change your voice.  If you truly want surgery when you are a adult go ahead . but a CHILD UNDER 17 YEARS OF AGE should not be getting any type of surgery its permanent. children do not understand much under the age of 18+. 

I dont think that children should be at pride parades unless they WANT to go their parents shouldn't force them. GROWN ADULTS shouldnt be walking around with their parts hanging out. the PRIDE PARADE is to celebrate the freedom and achievements of LGBT+ people. children will be there no matter what if you want your parts hanging out go to a fucking strip club because it is sick and gross . LGBT+ members are called sick and mental the ones that are sick and mental are the ones that use the parade to show their parts off . You can be proud of your body but the PRIDE PARADE is not the place to show all of that.

I havent attended a pride parade i have seen and heard from my friends and online i understand sometimes parents cant leave their kids so thats what i saying. children shouldnt be banned from pride parades nudity should be banned its fucking illegal to have your parts out in public its the same even if its a gay person at a pride parade.

What are ya'lls thoughts on Nudity in pride parades?