Ghosting parents after you become a adult

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Cw: ghosting parents, trauma , mental/emotion/physical abuse, mentions of past self harm 

Okay let me start by saying my mother is unfortunately dead, i do have a step mother. even though i dont like my real mother nor my step mother due to past abuse etc.




"But its your mom, you only have one mom" That is fucking stupid

Whenever someone blocks their parents or doesnt talk to them after adulthood everyone always gets after that person and says "you only have one mom/dad they did everything for you". ha you mean they did the BARE MINIMUM , CLOTHES ON MY BACK, FOOD, WATER, A ROOF OVER MY HEAD, A BED. THAT IS WHAT A PARENT IS SUPPOSED TO DO...thats what they fucking signed up for when they decided to become a parent and yes the could have been r*aped but they could have put their child up for adoption or abortion, but those who decided to HAVE children. THEY KNEW WHAT THEY WERE DOING. food water,clothes,house,bed,all that shit is what a parent is supposed to do for their CHILD  . 

Why is it that we ask why we blocked them out of our life? why are we called ungrateful? 

We should ask the parents what THEY did. What could they do that their own children block them and ignore them? 

Why must we always get after the child? ask the parents what the fuck they did for their child to hate them so much to not talk to them.

I know damn well im getting rid of all contact with my family due to the abuse ive gone through and im going through. 

so instead of saying "Its your Mom/Dad" maybe start fucking saying "Become a better parent"

fucking annoying when i hear that 




what do yall think?




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