Disrespect

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Disrespect :

I know that I should be updating the book, but I have to tell you that I'm getting annoyed with the fandom I'm in. Not the Little Mix one, the One Direction one. Right now you're probably nodding your heads because you are, too.

Fans can be so crazy sometimes, but they also have some respect for the boys' privacy, family, etc. And then there are those obsessed fans who are rude and immature. Like hating on the girlfriends? Uh, they're pretty, good role models, and if you read their quotes on tumblr or google or their tweets, they're funny, inspirational, and average girls that you see these days. Hating on Perrie's band? You don't know them. You only know them if you are a fan (like, you know their names or you like their music) or a mixer (a directioner, but with Little Mix). Jesy, Leigh-Anne, and Jade are nice girls, who are funny and talented. And stop comparing them to 1D. They are nothing alike. 1D is males and Little Mix are females. And they're not the girl version of 1D. They're music is a little different (Little Mix said that in an interview) and they all have different personalities. Everyone is their own person.

Union J isn't copying One Direction. Sure, they came in third place on Season 9 of the X-Factor and are guys, but they're not trying to be the same. All Union J said was that they want to be as successful as One Direction, not One Direction. They also said they discovered they have different tastes in music. That is also a difference between them (other than having two band names, recieving a new bandmate, and dressing up as monkeys)

Girls. Whenever we see a picture of the guys with a girl that isn't clarified as a fan with a caption, our fandom explodes and starts hating. Like with Amy Green. Amy seemed nice, and sure her and Niall dated, but that doesn't mean you have to hate on her. Harry was just seen with a girl, and they can just be friends. Just because they're seen with a girl doesn't mean they are dating or are in love. People overexaggerate too much.

Taylor Swift...uh, I can't really back her up here because I didn't think Haylor was real. But she doesn't deserve hate. Nobody does. Remember the phrase, "Treat others the way you like to be treated" or "If you have  nothing nice to say, don't say it all"?

Now, the real reason was the thing that just recently happened. Greg and Denise's wedding. It was supposed to be a wedding, not a 1D meet and greet or a concert, but yet fans went anyway (along with some paps and parents of fans) and crashed it. They had to have security and Paul come to the wedding. It was supposed to be about Greg and Denise, not about meeting Niall or fangirling over him. I can stress so much about this! What if you were famous and a relative you loved had a wedding that you were in? Wouldn't you hate it if people came and started asking for a picture or autograph? I know I would. That is rude and disrespectful. If I sweared, this whole paragraph would be filled with words I've just discovered thanks to me liking One Direction and getting older. Did you know that the parents of fans allowed their daughters to go? If I was a mother or father, I would tell them no, because it is a wedding. Sure, they could've left out that part, but they could've heard their child say that Greg was getting married before. I told my brother and sister that. I told my grandmother that. I told my mother that. Not my dad, because he is on a business trip, but still...you get the idea. I don't know if this is true or just a rumor someone made up, but Niall cried and thought he ruined his borther's wedding because of all the fans showing up and distracting him when it was supposed to be a private wedding and Greg and Denise's special day. IT WAS ABOUT NIALL'S BROTHER AND NEW SISTER IN LAW! NOT HIM!

I am just so frusterated right now because that gives the rest of us a bad reputation. I told my grandmother that fans attacked it, and she shook her head when I said they had to have Paul there, along with some other guards.

That is all I'm going to say, because I already got hate for the most supidest things and don't want more. Because I can't ignore it...I thought I could...but can't, because it hurts my feelings and puts me down a little bit. You know who you are when I say this because I only got about twenty or twenty five hate messages now.

with more to come, xoxo

-Kat :{)

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