Unless you have suffered through the loss of a child, you truly do not know the pain that comes with it. You do not know what that may entail. One could have lost them to miscarriage or had them be a stillborn or had them taken from you or an illness. There is a very close friend of mine who has struggled very hard with the loss of her children. Her oldest she lost due to her addiction, as for the other she was not aware before it was too late and the miscarriage occurred. To have to watch somebody you lov to go through the motions of this kind of loss in such a heartbreaking, frustrating way is.....there's not a current way I know to describe it. You have been here before somebody you love has gone through these motions. And it never stops. It will forever be a cycle of loss until one is able to accept that pain as strength and move on.
