Imagine a wall plug charger...
You know how when you go to plug in a charger to the wall to recharge something and as you insert the prongs into the plug you observe that spark when it starts to connect? Visualize yourself only putting in halfway and adjusting it so the sparks keep occurring, relationshipnal connection is quite like this. You see if you only are willing to connect half way yes there are sparks of connection but that is all there will ever be, it's not until you are completely willing to fully insert that charger into the wall that a full connection may be made. Do not be afraid to connect or you might miss out of the recharge that you most desperately need.
