Maybe... Just maybe if i didn't meet you guys... This would've never happened.... If i didn't exist on this planet... none of this would've happened... I don't understand why everything is going wrong now... Maybe if i wasn't so sensitive... emotional, maybe if i didn't over think everything, maybe if i wasn't here... things would be better...
for context
A friend of mine... Keeps flirting with me... calling me nicknames i only allow my best friend and my current partner call me, and he knows I'm in a relationship. But i don't think he really cares at all, My partner... Is getting uncomfortable with my friend... I mean they both are best friends, they've known each other for 4 years now, but ever since i joined in things weren't the same for them, I dated this friend that keeps flirting with me, though he told me at the end of our relationship... "I'm not gonna date anyone until im 16" Im not reveling our ages bc no, but My best friend even has the ick with him, and im just so confused with what to do, my life is just slowly falling apart, My ex left me for my best friend, although she never wanted him, i keep overthinking that she likes my partner or he likes her, though she told me she doesn't, and my boyfriend said he loves me, i just dont know anymore. I can't eat normally, i can't sleep, i can't genuinely smile anymore. I want to be able to do everything normal again.
I love my friends, even the one flirting with me, but the thing is.... I dont think i can do this anymore, he's crossing my boundaries, and i haven't told anyone them so why not list them rn?
1: Flirting is okay, but please know i have limits... (Especially if im in a relationship)
2: DONT ever touch me without asking (tapping me is okay, only if its to get my attention, my best friend and boyfriend can whenever <3)
3: I wont do things that people want me to
4: Nicknames are only for my best friend and my partner to call me (Along with a few friends depending on the nickname)
5: Do not ever touch my partner or my best friend, (Without their permission) ill snap your neck
And that's it, i don't have much, but that's really it.
Everyone has their boundaries
This page has a really important lesson attached to it...
Ask before you do something, if someone tells you no... Its a no. If they don't answer wait till they do, don't immediately assume they want what you want.
Crossing someones boundaries is not okay... ESPECIALLY if you dont know them! So please, respect one another...
Love you guys <3
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- Asher jay
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