Panacea For Life

2. Judgmental People

You walk into the room full of people you have never seen and suddenly a girl leans over to reach another girl's ear and whisper things you are sure are about you. They keep eying you up and down as if you are an alien even though they don't know you. They judge you by the way you dress, the way you style your hair even by the way you walk. You can always feel their eyes burning holes into your back as you walk away. Their stares follow you everywhere and you end up having a nervous breakdown.

The worst part is, people don't even bother to look inside, and it's just the outer covering that's enough for them to form their perception. They wear nice clothes? Then they must have high standards and must be real good.-This is how people know if someone as "high standards".

If you are not fancy enough for them, they will keep scrunching up their nose in disgust or just give you such ugly stare, you start to question your whole existence. It doesn't matter if you are a good person or you have some talent, all that takes them to form a perception about you is the way you look.

Getting judged by people by the way you dress isn't the only way people try to put you down, there are many others who think that whatever you may do you will never be good enough. They think that you can't ever get a thing right, you are always wrong and they consider themselves superior and behave like they are better than you.

You will always meet people when you go places and there will be some judgmental ones too. The only way to tackle them is have faith in your choices, have faith in yourself. No matter how many times they try to let you down by telling you that you have done it wrong, you shouldn't lose hope. You have to build yourself strong.

Most of the time, these kind of people go around spreading rumors. If people believe them you should know- they are not worth your time. The people who actually deserve your trust are the ones who try to see both the sides of the story; they won't immediately place their opinion about you without actually trying to look past their lies. Shine bright and show them what you are, then, you wouldn't even have to fight to let the truth come out; it will be crystal clear to everyone.

Don't ever base your choices on anyone else's opinions because this is your life, they are not supposed to tell you how to live. Don't bother about what other people will think when you take decisions because you are the one who is going to spend the rest of your life based on your choices not them. Make sure you never regret your decisions and that too, just because someone else suggested/forced their opinion on you to do it.

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