Unconditional

Chapter 3:

Sinead had just showered, it had been the longest week, introducing Averie to her boyfriend and family, and getting her settled in. She had just started to do her skincare routine, when she heard her daughter scream loudly, Sinead rushed into the room, picking her up, she was crying and was freaking out. Sinead "I'm here baby, mommy's here", Averie "mommy they're coming for me", Sinead "no baby, no one is coming. Mommy's got you, I'm not gonna let anyone hurt you. Mommy's got you", Averie continued to cry, all Sinead could do was comfort her baby and just be there for her.

@ sineadharnett
Just made a YouTube video on my daughter's adoption story, of course this is still a journey that we are currently on but I thought it would be interesting to document each of our milestones together. And yes my daughter is completely on board with it, I am extremely proud since I was given the opportunity for a new start with my family, I didn't hesitate to do the same for her. One thing we are struggling with is her trauma, she's so traumatized from all of it she has these panic attacks where she just cries uncontrollably and just wants to be comforted by me, even though I love doing that for her, it's so hard to see her in this way. I don't know how to help her deal with the trauma she suffered from, although one thing we've been doing a lot is I play my song unconditional, and we listen to it every morning and every night. It's song that brings the both of us comfort and feeling of being loved, I was very young when I was adopted by my forever family, and doing this for Averie makes me feel so much more happier as a person, I can't believe that I'm her mother. Stay tuned for more updates on our journey, love you all. - Sinead, Averie 💕

Sinead "baby it's okay, mommy's right here. Are you okay baby", Averie "I don't wanna feel it anymore", Sinead "you don't want to feel what anymore", Averie "I don't wanna tell you", Sinead "you can tell mommy anything, I promise you that", Averie "I was raped, that's why I keep pushing daddy away", Sinead "I'm sorry. But if you were to tell daddy that I'm sure that he would understand. Baby he's not gonna judge you and neither will I", Sean "baby girl", Averie didn't know that his was listening to their entire conversation, Sean "hey, it's okay. I'm not gonna put you down or say anything terrible to you. What happened to you is one of the most disgusting things that could happen to a child, and to know that you never had anyone until us. But baby, we're gonna protect you from the bad things, we're aren't gonna let anything happen to you ever again. You're gonna be a child, because that's what you are, and you're gonna be okay. It might take a while to get there but you'll get there baby girl because you have us to help you get there", Averie hugged him, he picked her up and hugged her back, Sean "daddy loves you so much princess", Averie "I love you too daddy". Sinead "I think it's time for bed, we have lots to do tomorrow. So let's get ready for bed", Averie "can we please watch a movie before bed, please please please", Sinead "yeah", the three of them stood in Averie's room for the night, Averie chose the movie, she chose the mean girls musical movie. After the movie finished, Sinead played her song, it was a tradition for their daughter. Sean shut off the tv, and him and Sinead had fallen asleep since their daughter had already fallen asleep after the movie had finished.

@ sineadharnett
Okay, I've been getting alot of questions and I mean a lot of them. And if ya didn't know we and my boyfriend are in the process of adopting this sweet little girl, she's the sweetest. Anyways the video on how we met is now uploaded so please go check it out and watch it before coming on here and shooting my dms with tons of messages. I get it, you all wanna know the tea and know about her, at this time we are spending time with our daughter and focusing on her. Yes, there will be a q and a video soon, and a video where you'll be watching our interaction for the first time. Again go to our channel and watch the video, we'll be posting on here soon. Until then thank you for the sweet messages and support. Sinead 🫶🏼