Hello, my little-dino-nuggies-with-their-heads-bitten-off! It's a-me, Mars! Once again, talking about a lighter topic.
As a proud member of the LGBTQIAP+ community, there's some things we need to talk about!
I'll make a list for you lovelies.
1. Non-binary and Zenogender identites are not invalid. Some people have trouble expressing their gender outside of binary male and female, too. I'll give you an example.
Everyone starts out as plain chocolate ice cream. Or vanilla, whatever flavor you want. Imagine going up to the counter, and they have two choices. Pink sprinkles or blue sprinkles? You think to yourself, what about no sprinkles? What if I want yellow sprinkles? Maybe I'll just go home and throw some random candies on this.
That's how Enby and Zenogender identites are. Different, outside of the norm. They're accepted. Perfectly okay and normal.
2. How someone dresses doesn't mean they identify with said gender.
Lemme explain this more. I am a transitioning FTM. I still misgender myself, and deadname myself- and that's normal. It's okay, that's how I've grown up. But I still finding myself wearing skirts, and loving how they look.
I am still a man if I wanna wear a skirt one day and pants the next. Gender doesn't equal clothing.
3. How people address the LGBTQUIAP+ community.
For those who don't know, the LGBTQUIAP spectrum goes like this.
L- lesbian, being a woman and liking woman, WLW
G- gay, being a man and liking men, MLM
B- liking both men and women, attraction can fluctuate
T- trans, 'fixing' gender, ex, MTF, FTM, FTNB, MTNB.
Q- queer, questioning, etc
I- intersex, those born with both male and female body parts
A- being aspec/arospec, aka on the aromantic or asexual spectrum
P- liking all genders without a preference
+- gender identities and sexualities outside of the previous listed
You don't need to spell out the whole spectrum every time, loves, it's fine. Just call us the gay community. The queers. Pride community. Hell, the ladies works just as well. Gays, Theys, Zeys- It's fine, babes.
This was kinda a rant/random stuff lol
Help I may or may not want to go get tested for autism or ADHD because I had like seven people on either spectrum tell me I had one or both.
I'm already neurospicy though lol.
ANyways- *awkward microphone screech as i nervously back away from the podium* - thank you for coming to my TedTalk. Feel free to message me anytime, my Yahoo's whatthesigmaalphamale@yahoo.com (no that is not a joke.) and my Discord's drowningatsunset.
-marsiestarsie
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