Baby Steps-My Littlespace Journey

Littles can be the bigger person too.

This is an actual conversation that I had with someone on an app called FetLife. Not all of the people are like this. Actually, this is the worst conversation I've had on there. Some details are slightly changed for the privacy of the other person. Also, there are grammar mistakes on purpose; that is how the texts were worded and spelled.

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Him
Hi princess

Me
Hello 👋
Do you like taco bell?

Him
Lol it's okay but I consider it to be one of the worst places for tacos lol
I'll eat it but I won't love it
Would rather eat you lol😈😘
How's your morning going

Me
It's going okay... except for one thing.

Him
What is that hun

Me
This guy that I'm talking to...
Doesn't like taco bell 😡
I'm half joking
I just wanna make sure... you know that I'm looking for a non-sexual relationship, yeah?

Him
So a friend lol

Me
Not exactly. Just not a sex partner. Friendship isn't the only type of non-sexual relationship 🤔

Him
Well spending time together and enjoy your company sounds like a friend of I can't kiss on there neck and chest

Me
If I'm not looking for the same thing that you're looking for, then that's not the end of the world.
There's plenty of fishes in the sea.

Him
Well idk what your looking for fr

Me
If you're looking for a sexual relationship, then I'm not what you're looking for
Which it seems you probably are

Him
Well look at the app lol
Literally nudes left and right and your here like I want a friend

Me
Then stop messaging me 🧐 it seems like you're wasting your time on criticizing someone for their desires. I would think that anyone on here would know better than that.

Him
Not really I guarantee that 90% of the men are looking for sex regardless of if it involves a relationship lol and you want a pen pale

(Author's note: he didn't understand what I meant...)

Him
So no one knows better and you should use a different app or you will be waiting like 10 or more minutes of any man's time until they release your bored and don't want your pussy stretch so they ghost you
Try scout meet me or something lol it doesn't imply sex
This app is for sexually active people

(Author's note: there are plenty of people on FetLife who are not sexually active.)

Me
I'm pretty sure everyone on here has brains and can understand what I mean when I put "I DON'T WANT A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP" in my posts. If they message me, they're wasting their own time. I have made my needs abundantly clear.
So in other words, stop criticizing me and be on your way 🫡

Him
Theres a good 10% of men and maybe 40%girls that might even kinda fall in the category or just friends

Me
Dude

Him
No shits I'm buzzed idc what is on your account lol

(Author's note: by this point I was so done...)

Me
🤦

Him
Us dudes look at pics and she and maybe we look at the like or kinks lol
Witch is me telling you that you will NOT find a friend on jere
Here

Me
Okay. Thanks for the tip. Not for the criticism. Have a good day. You have made your point clear.

(Author's note: It took every ounce of my patience and kindness to say these words to him.)

Him
Ok if lol if you don't block me I'll check in with you in like 3 days to see if you found your mythic legendary man that doesn't have a dick and doesn't care if he buss a nut lol
I'm assuming I'll be blocked in a couple minutes tho lol I'm dead

Me
You're not dead, you're just an instigator.
I'm not wasting my time on someone like you. It's funny when a little is the bigger person.

Him
And it will not even make me think twice bc your apparently asexual and can reproduce by yourself like a slug
Sure sure ya ya continue to proceed
Makes sense considering Dom's are more realistic lol . But have fun looking for Mario or Luigi
Chasing a girl in another castle

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And then he got blocked and reported.
Before this conversation, I would not believe that anyone could ever be
1. this stupid,
2. this vulgar, and
3. this repulsive.
Does he think that women only exist to pleasure men and make babies?
And seriously, dude could have just stopped talking to me. Instead, he had to try and put me down. It didn't make me feel bad for who I am, but it made me disgusted by him.
I hope that things like this don't happen to you. Let me know if you've ever had a similar experience.
XOXO