What is love?
This is a question that you can ask seven billion people and you get seven billion different answers. Everybody got his own definition of love.
If you love you are set free, you are happy, so isn't love selfish? Ofcourse it is, if you love something you want to own it, to be part of it, to dwell in it's energy, to last forever. But love cannot be selfish - you may say, if you love someone, you give the best you've got, you offer yourself, because if you don't, then it is not love, it's an illusion.
Both who say that love is and isn't selfish are usualy right, you see, love cannot be catagorized or atributed to something or someone, you love because you do it, because it makes you happy....so can we say that love is happiness? Yes, we can – happy people love everything in their touch of mind, and the ones that are in love, are happy; you might say that „I loved once, but the feeling wasn't mutual", but here's the trick, that is not love, it's the illusion of love, it's an obsession for something or someone for a period of time, because in your mind, that person or thing deserves the time you offer it, therefore it's not love, love is mutual by definition.
Those two feelings are somehow related one to another – happiness and love; when you are in love, you become happy, and when you are happy you are in love. Love is happiness and happiness is love. Happiness is a state of mind that comes from within, we often believe the illusion that we are happy because of something or someone, but in fact, we are happy because our soul is at peace, a peace that we search for all our lives, we search it in everything we do and everybody we meet, but we forget to search it in ourselves.
Therefore if you wanna be happy, love, love everything you do and everything you do, do with pleasure, don't take things personal, don't take them as good or bad, take them as they are and enjoy your ride; and if you ask me how to love, one small advise, start with yourself, you are unique, you are a wonder, you are not a body, you are a soul with a body, yes, when i am talking to you, reader, i am talking directly to your soul, i am adressing the very bit of god in you, you deserve to be happy. Love yourself, let your soul make peace with itself and then you become happy, because happiness, my friend, is a journey.
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