Every single person here on Earth will eventually come to an end. Because nothing's permanent, the only thing that's permanent here is change. I witnessed different ways on how to accept your own ending, what made me think of this is because, people tend to be so emotional when one of their loved one dies. I know, how painful it is, how miserable you'll feel, how lonely you'll feel, how empty. I also experienced all of that. But the thing is, death isn't something that can be avoided. Yeah, if you're on cigarettes, you can prolong the time of your death by stopping it, but still, you only made your time longer, not forever. What I mean is, we have many chances to prolong our lives, but never will it happen that we can permanently prolong it. We're just like, only having extension. But once your time is up, you can no longer escape death. Everything happens for a reason, every little thing here on Earth that you do will affect each and every one. Once you die, you can no longer have the chance to correct your mistakes. Now, the thing is, people die even without finishing things here on Earth properly. It may not seem like it, but it's already the end for them. For us, they have an 'unfinished' business, but for Him, they already started their real mission. People tend to hurt when somebody dies, but the real thing should be like this. We should be happy when someone dies, ironic isn't it? Someone dies and you're happy about it, but no. Death ends someone's misery and starts a new one. Death is like a win-lose situation. When someone dies, that makes them happy, why? Because they can no longer feel the pain and emptiness inside them, because they're gone. They can no longer feel the feeling of sympathy, regrets and every negative things they should feel. Why? Because they're gone. That ends someone's misery. But the thing is, when it ends someone's misery, it starts a new misery. The one that has been left behind will forever plant in their mind that he left them. You know how it feels to be left out? To be dropped there, not to be concerned? It hurts, like hell. But you shouldn't feel that way, always look at the bright side. When someone dies, it's either you'll be forever buried inside that devastating memory or you'll move on. That person has nothing to do with what you're experiencing. You're the only one causing your pain, you're the only one that's bringing misery to yourself. The one that causes you to be stressed out.
Relax, take a deep breath and move on. Do not let yourself be unmoved. Be as light as a feather but as dense and compact as a rock. It's time for you to start something new, probably something better, or who knows, if it's going to be the best thing that will happen to you in your entire life? Do you think that that person will be happy if he/she sees you like that? In your state? Depressed & unhappy? No, right? That person wants you to be happy, he already done his part. Maybe, he left you but that's not the end of the world, it's the start of a new world of yours, not being with him, but always bringing him as a treasured memory that you wouldn't want to forget. You should do something for you to not regret the time you wasted mourning and crying for that person. It's not worth already. It's done, it's not like you crying would bring him back to life. Just think of the happy, good, sad, depressing memories you had with him. And use that as an empowerment of you, to move on from everything that has happened, to leave everything in the past, to move on without him or her, and especially to make that as a lesson learned that you will forever implant in the memory section of your sweet brain.
