<pre style="line-height: 21px; white-space: normal; color: #444444; font-size: 15px; text-align: start;">I believe trust is a big problem in both youth and adults. Many people may be going through problems, but don’t have anyone reliable that they can tell there problems to - no one that they can fully trust.
Have you ever had someone that you've thought you could trust, and you tell them something, but the whole school knows about it within a week?
Have you ever told someone something that you don’t want anyone to know but then everyone finds out, and you get hated or bullied for it, get put down and judged for something stupid you did, and then you wonder why?
It’s because you put your faith and trust into the wrong hands! You find someone that you think you can trust, all because that may be the only one that is your ‘friend.’ Maybe you’re fooled because your ‘friend’ comes across as the best person in the world, but they really aren't…
See, a real friend won’t listen to what you have to say, then go tell other people that they then think they can trust, then those people will tell people they think they can trust, and before you know it, it seems everyone in the world knows your personal life. That is not a real friend.
This is a problem for females also. Have you ever noticed that when females stop being friends, they often are friends again the next week and act like nothing happened? You may say, “Well that’s girls for you," and yes, of course friends have their little ups and downs, we certainly don’t live in a perfect world. However, when friends are fighting nearly every second, I can tell you it’s not a healthy friendship.
People need to prove that they’re trust worthy, that you can rely on them. How do you do that?
Here’s how…
I want to tell you now, never look on the outside of someone and just go after them because you think they look really hot or pretty. It’s what’s on the inside that counts, their personality, who they are.
A healthy and "good" personality is kind hearted; the person will help bring you back up onto your feet again, no matter how hard it is.
They won’t hate anyone, no matter what people have done to them, but rather forgive even without an apology.
What sort of respect do they have for there peers, teachers, parents and most of all their country?
You want someone that doesn't walk up to you and complain about every bad mistake that their parents have made, one that doesn't hate on teachers just because they got a detention.
Most of all, you want to trust someone that proves they can hold secrets, one that you can dump a load on without them telling the whole school, or even a secondary person without your permission.
Trust is hard to get! Hanging with the wrong crowd won’t get you anywhere either - hang around a loving and accepting crowd of people who do all I have just mentioned, even though they may not be the most popular group.
Make sure you don’t get trapped. Don't get caught up thinking that they are a loving and accepting group, because people wear masks. Never let your guard down! And never put your full trust in ANYONE! </pre>
