#6 Be on the Lookout & Keep Your Options Open

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Marry the person you know can uplift you morally and who will always remind you that Allah is sufficient for you in times of trials.

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#6 Tip - Be on the Lookout and Keep Your Options Open

The Prophet peace be upon him, taught us to tie the camel and put our trust in Allah. (Tirmidhi) In other words, while
the final outcome is with God, we are required to put in the work.

So many people share with me that they want to get married, but then they specify that the potential spouse
must be from a specific race or a specific career path or they must meet them in a specific way. If you are so busy looking for Mr. or Ms. Perfect, you may miss Mr. or Ms. Right.

Do your part in finding the right partner:

•Start going to more events,

•Joining more volunteer organizations,

•Putting your profiles on marriage sites and

•Sending your information to friends who could keep you in mind while they interact with those who could be possible potentials.

You may already be doing all of the above and more, and you may be emotionally exhausted by the constant
disappointment.

Take a deep breath, take some time off, plan some 'you' recuperation time in which you work on self-care. And when
you're ready, re-open your heart to being vulnerable again.

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