the personification of life

what is life?

life means different things for different people. depends on people's perspective on how they look at things. in life we do things. some we wish we had never done.. some we wish to replay a million times in our heads. but they all make us who we are, and in the end they shape every detail about us.if we were to reverse any of them , we wouldn't be the person we are now. not like it's even possible in the first place. so we should just live, make mistakes, have wonderful memories, but never second guessing who we are ,where we have been ,and most importantly where it is we are going. it is terrible that people actually hate themselves because they are not a certain weight, or don't have certain grades , or do not have this or that and will physically cut themselves open or emotionally inside. people are terrified of being judged because they do not look like the person on on the cover of the magazines. so perhaps if we showed people that it is okay to be who they are, instead of just saying don't be afraid to be you ! as long as you're confident. it doesn't matter. then just then maybe there will be less people with slashes on thier wrists or scars across thier hearts and notes saying " I'm sorry i wasn't good enough " because we always have to remember that just like some historical famous figure says "we have those who will love us even if we cut them into pieces, and those who will hate us even if we fed them pure honey ". those wise words mean that we will always have people to hate us no matter what we do and people to love us no matter what we do , no matter what happens in life, it doesn't matter how sad or how enlightening or how joyful it is. we should smile like we are okay, laugh like we have no worries, and just pretend that we are not slowly dying on the inside, even if we are.
because we shouldn't let others to get into our weaknesses and let them use or us or take advantage of us. although it happens to all of us, which is getting used by the people we love the most, the people that we trust the most, the people that we care about the most, and people that make us feel like the happiest human being alive.
getting betrayed and getting broken hearts and broken promises and broken trusts by the hand of those people, but we must always remember that one step can change everything bad in our lives, just don't say I'm sad , or I'm a bad person, i can't be happy or i can't live without that thing or that person. we should understand that "our happiness is in our own hands not in another person's hands" we must enjoy life. we are all born as equally strong as a person. and yes some may make mistakes and take silence for ignorance, calmness for acceptance, or kindness for weakness. but that doesn't prove them right. who we was or who we are or who we will be doesn't define us, our actions does. we all will be remembered by our actions and the things we do all have effects on others. some might be good and some might be bad , depends on the action to be precise. and yes our thoughts are more than our words. sometimes we have thousand thoughts but yet we can only say few words, but those few words might effects us or the people around us way more than those thousand thoughts ever will. the proportion of size doesn't matter the quality does. we can talk all the time but it doesn't mean what we say is all right. sometimes what we say effects us or the people around us that we care about and that we love more than we could possibly imagine. so choosing words wisely is crucially important in every stage of our lives. we can make people happy by just one word which is "beautiful " or just a simple sentence " you are beautiful " or make them sad by just saying " you are ugly " we choose who to be and what to be be No ONE ELSE.
because god gave us all " free will" otherwise he could've made us all his slaves and force us to do whatever he wants. but the wisdom of showing the way of right and wrong to humans but letting them choose what to do and what to believe in. and we all get afraid of things in life.