Shadows

Reality Check.

It is often said that we live in a free country. People encourage individuality. People encourage the fact that you can do whatever you want. That is not true.

It should be easier to fall into the times of the present. People do things without thinking. It will differ from what location you are at, but there are some things that stay. For instance, it is a known thing that men are suppose to be nice to a woman. You are not suppose to call her fat, or physically abuse her in any way. Then there are the circumstances where you are suppose to be a gentleman. They are to open the doors and give jackets when it's cold. And also, if men do something wrong, they are suppose to be the one to apologize.

When you think this through, it seems unfair to men. The females get all of the better treatment. They have to drop everything for the women. And it's true. But in these times, it's a must. When some guy is acting out, people all look down on him. They see it to be wrong, even if, for the most part, it is the woman.

Although you may be smart enough to look through these common ways, you cannot help to think with your pre-wired brain. Guys are always jerks if they lash out to a girl. It is just the way the world is at the moment. And the most you can do is wait it out.