Advice
Bullying
I have been, and still am, a victim of bullying. So, I am here to share some of my advice, on how to avoid it.
Please note, I am sort of basing this on my experiences with bullying. :)
Ok, so I know what it's like to be bullied, it hurts physically and emotionally. But no matter what, You can not give up. The people that are bullying you, they are only doing it because they are having their own problems and they need to make someone else feel weak. Or, they are just jealous of you and want to make you feel bad about yourself. Don't let them get to you!
I just want to quickly talk about physically being bullied. I have only been bullied like this once, but it did last a very long time, and it hurt. Firstly, If you're being physically bullied, don't let it go on for more then a week. It will only get worse after a week, trust me. If your in school -I believe most bullying happens at school- I suggested you tell a teacher or a parent, they will try and stop it. If your teacher/parent doesn't stop it, go to the deputy/vice principle. They should get the situation sorted. If they can't do anything, go straight to the principle. The principle is almost always the one to stop bullying. Unfortunately for me, I had to stop my bullying by myself with my friends that were also getting bullied by the same group of boys.
Now, I'm always getting bullied through words. It's normally all the popular girls that do this sort of bullying. They normally say mean things to you about your body, your looks, your relationship status and stuff like that. All I have to say, Is don't listen to them! They are just jealous of you and want to make you feel like crap. This would normally make you sad and self-conscious about yourself. -If you never feel like that when people say things about you, go you people! :D.- All I have to say to the people that aren't like that, don't show that your sad or whatever, that's what they feed off of, so they will continue. Don't show it, and just remember to stay strong and never believe those jealous people that pick on you! <3
Those are the two main way's of bullying to me. So sorry if I didn't get the way that you're being bullied. But you can always pm me, and In the next issue, I can help you :)
Stay strong everyone and never believe the haters! <3
Until next time,
Shannon_Heyo <3 :D
