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The Little voice in your head

This is the phenomenon that psychologists call “inner speech”, and they’ve been trying to study it pretty much since the dawn of psychology as a scientific discipline. 

   We all have that lil voice in our head , that speaks to us , when we literally have no one else to talk to, or to consult .

So why not listen to it :)

We often fall into situations, and a hell load of times we don't know what to do. Maybe one of your friend might advise , "Hey, Don't worry, just listen to your Heart".

But then it's the little voice that speaks to us.

It talks to you every single night, every morning, when you buy something, when you study for your test, when you take some decisions.

It's like the most innocent, raw, honest lil YOU , talkin to yourself.

Now for eg.

Many a times in life, most of us struggle and go out of our ways to impress someone, or to just make the people around us "Happy".

And no matter what you do, how many ever changes you make to yourself, there's always gonna be 2 - 3 out of those 10 people who say they still don't like you.

Ok so, you might think ," Okay, the rest of the 7 -8 people like me, Great, Majority wins, Hmm but why don't the 2 ,like me? 🙄🙄🙄"

And then to impress the rest you still keep trying.

But do you really need to change yourself for someone?

Do you really need to make yourself feel uncomfortable wearing that lil tight dress trynna Tuck your belly in meanwhile suffocating you, when you could be wearing your comfy ass pajamas and eating  popcorn at your place?

Can't they just love you for what you are, who you are, and how you are?

If they can't, well then they've got a problem.

Talk to yourself like you would talk to a person you love, Tell yourself positive things only.

Don't say how worth you are, in a negative fashion.

Don't say I am fat, I am ugly, I am not good enough.

Say, I am strong, I am powerful, I am beautiful in the way I am, I am happy with whatever I've got in my life and that I am worthy of all happiness that life has to offer me.  ~Yousef Erakat

Whenever in a situation where you gotta choose A or B !!
Give that voice a chance to speak :)

Coz that one voice, holds the power to change things in your life.

Your own happiness matters the most, and hence that should be your first priority.

Just do You :)

Alright that's the chapter for today, I hope you guys liked it, Show support through your comments and votes. I'll see you guys in the next chapter, till then,
Stay You , Stay Beautiful😘😘