(•ө•)♡ Random Ish (•ө•)♡ [#Wattys2016]

Relationships.

Hello Everyone! Been away for a long time, but this one thing stroked my mind today.

Often, in a relationship , whether it be 'You with a ' guy/girl' , 'You with your parents', 'You with your in-laws', or any other kind of relationship.

The bond only becomes strong when there are certain things present and common between you two 

By "You two", I mean to address the relationship of "Two Lovers". That's gonna be the Star of this topic 😂

So Yeah, Moving on.

I've seen most relationships getting over , in like weeks, months, or even Years.

Isn't it weird to see a couple being together for years but then suddenly breaking apart..

Won't these questions arise in your mind-

"What went wrong?"
"They seemed perfect, why did they break up?"
"Whose fault was it?"

Yadda yadda yadda....

But , have you really , ever... Tried to imagine yourself walking in their shoes?

Giving relationship advice is easy Yo!
Practicing the same isn't :)

Now a few common problems these Two supposedly Love Birds face are :

1. Not being able to have a proper open hearted conversation with each other.

2. Not having a closure after every argument.

3. Not being able to convey the feelings in a proper way.

4. Denying to make compromises .

5. Having trust issues

Do you know what!
Any relationship will never succeed unless and until you learn from each other, about each other and for each other.

You have to make compromises,
You need to trust them,
You need to have a closure ,
You have to let them know how you feel about a certain thing.

Keeping your doubts  , your anger , your feelings in the air , won't help you get anywhere.

When you feel he/she isn't giving you enough attention, let them know!

When you don't like how they behaved with you the other day, Let them know !

When you feel like telling them you love them, Just Let them know :)

Unless you're in it just for the money, or just for sex, the above things won't matter 😂😂

But if you're in it for the person, for the love , for a lifelong togetherness, these things will matter at some point in your life.

The world will bring forth you a hell load of surprises , bad times, good times, family issues, society issues, trust issues, and probably every kinda thing that might/ might not shake up your lil love bubble.

Just make sure , your base is strong enough to fight every single ball of fire.

And yeah if you're single , the 5 points will also be applicable to every other relationship :)

Unless you speak up yourself, no one will ever know how you feel.

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Alright then that's the chapter for today,
I hope you all have a great day, and yeah I hope that I've helped some of you in some way. Leave your comments and do vote for the chapter. I'll see you guys in the next one.
Till then, Stay You , Stay Beautiful

:) Yep, I'm Voldemort 😂😂😂