The Stories That Hold the Truth

Relationship advice

I know this is going to sound bad on my part and I just want to help based on previous relationship advice I have.
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It isn't fare to you or her if you're unhappy or if she is unhappy for you two to stay in a relationship. I know how it feels for long distance and when you have been with them for longer than 24 months and you don't want to end it because of how wonderful it was at the start but being unhappy causes a drift and that drift causes pain and it sucks! It just hurts the relationship and the friendship that could possibly happen. If you've gone past the point of no return and cheated, I feel so sorry for you not because if they find out there will be Thor's hammer coming down upon you, but because you are so unhappy that you have to find someone else to please you... Look, trust me and just talk to them and tell them the truth. Don't just stand or sit there and not say anything to save something that you believe could change into something more beautiful with 27 years. Let them go find someone and you let yourself find someone for you who makes you happy. I have never once cheated, but I have been cheated on. I have been unhappy in a relationship and scared to tear the band aid off and end it, but I did end it. Once I ended that realtionship sure I felt horrible but today I'm happy and I look at it as an opportunity... If I hadn't had dated him and broken up with him, or if he hadn't cheated on me to alow me to realize where this was going I wouldn't be where I am now. I wouldn't have found my lifestyle of choice, I wouldn't have found my current love. I wouldn't be happy like I am today.