Love Advice

Love Struck is Back

Hey everyone! I'm so sorry I left you guys for so long, I had uni stress but now I've graduated and I'm ready to get back to giving you all the advice you need. When I opened my inbox I found over 1000 messages. I couldn't read and answer them all but I did answer the ones that were sent up to 8 months ago. If you still have a problem and need advice, please send me a message again! I will read and reply to all the new ones.

Other than that, Im going to post multiple problems for you to solve so that we make up for all the lost time. Here goes.

Anonymous #1:

I like this guy, and all my friends from primary school have had boyfriends but all my highschool friends are so against it and don't have any crushes. I've never had a boyfriend but I kinda want one. I don't know what to do or even how to approach him. :(

Best Answer: Pending..

My advice to you: Be flirty! Be confident! Ignore what your friends think should or should not happen. They should be looking out for your happiness and if you find happiness in having a boyfriend then they should encourage you to do so. Talk to them. Get their support. It will be much easier to approach the guy when your friends are supporting you. And regarding the " against it and don't have any crushes." That's very obviously a lie. Nobody does not develop a crush on someone at least once in their lives. Go find out why they're hiding it.

Anonymous #2:

I'm in a love triangle situation. Obviously, my bsf is the other girl who likes him. One day, my bsf sent me a pic of their msg. The guy we both liked had told her, "Welp, I <3 you," I was scared bc I didn't know what to say. My bsf didn't know that I liked him which made it awkward for me. I had to pretend to be happy so I wouldn't get in the way of their relationship. This led to depression and other problems had been pouring into my life but this was one of the main things that is causing my depression. I posted something about my ex a few weeks later bc he had the nerve to text me in years. Then, the guy me and my bsf both liked had a friend who started talking to me. He thought my post was about the guy and so he told me to go for it and tell the guy that I liked him. When I built up my courage, I told him but he said that same response to every other girl that ever confessed to him, "Oh." It didn't hurt me that much bc he didn't say yes nor did he say no but this put my world upside down. After I told him I liked him, his friend started talking, which led to the guy saying that he liked me but I felt like he only said it bc he didn't want to hurt my feelings. I've been acting so different for the pass few weeks and everything's been changing. I've never been in this situation and I need help from someone, anyone.

Best Answer: Pending..

My Advice to you: Move on. There are plenty of guys out there! I do not recommend you fixating on a guy that your friend also likes, nor a guy that says stuff just do "you dont feel hurt."

Anonymous #3

Anyway, I met this guy in 2nd grade. We were both new and we had the same birthday date too! How crazy is that????Anyway, he had the same color hair and eyes as me. (Black)I dot remember much about him in 2nd grade but what I do remember is that I started liking him. So in 3rd grade, this gurl was asking who I liked and I told her his name. She screamed it out Luis and everybody in lunch heard. The rumors reached his ears instantly and he approached me. Then he asked if it was the and I tried to lie but he diet believe me. So for rest of 3rd grade, he started brig a jerk. The Prince Charming I knew and fell in live was gone. He mocked me about having a crush in him and his friends did too.So for 4th grade, I had totally forgotten about him. It's like I was so hurt at 3rd grade that my heart forced me to forget or something. Even if someone had said his name, I would be confused. I gotta admit, 4th grade was my best year. My favorite teacher, discovered my talent, and certainly no biys. I didn't even think of one!Then in 5th grade, one gurl told me she heard that he admitted he liked me on the bus. It hit me like a bomb. All my feelings ur buried deep all those years went hurling up. I was failing for him again. And this time, even harder.For most part of 5th grade, I see him most of the time staring at me in classes. And he would always pop up where I was in school asembilies. I always caught him string at me in lunch. But he was always mean to me. Calling me names and talkig bad abut me when I was right in front of them.Towards the end of 5th grade, I was playing basketball with my friends when he approached me. I had the ball and was bouncing it away from my opponent when all of a sudden, the ball was taken away from me. It was so quick. He dribbled the ball away from my opponent and shot. We got 3 points. From then on, he wild always play basketball and score for me. He wild be nice and smile sweetly at me.Then one day I heard him and his friends whispering about me. Know that he and his friends. Are very "popular" they were talking about all the different girls that liked him and how I liked him too. He was bragging. From then on, I never talked to him again.So 6th grade on, we went back to brig cold towards each other. He would be mean to me and I would be mean to him.But the thing was, my friends always sees him staring at me but I don't ever see that. Am I blind??? And sometimes, when I'm talking to other guys, they say he looked angry as hell. He would always pop up at the most random times. But what's even weirder is that he caught me crying in the hallway. (There was a guy who I befriended who became possessive and abusive. He wanted all my attention) that was the 1st time I've ever heard the tone of voice he used. It was soft and concerned. Like a gentle whisper calming a frightened animal. He asked me whats wrong and I didn't answer him. He grabbed my arm and looked into my eyes. I looks away and told him nothing. He looked sad but nodded. I told him to not tell anyone. Usually the normal him would make a joke of it. I was confused. The next day ad on, he would become a jerk again like nothing happened. He was mean and my friends still proclaimed he started staring at me like I'm the only thing in the world. But I don't believe that he actually likes me. I'm me. Ugly, fat, and boring. Nothing even close to being pretty or beautiful. How can a popular guy like a ugly nerd?Sorry, i know that was long. What should I do? Does he like me? I'm soooo confused. The version of story I told you is just a crumb of the story. Thers a lt more history between us

Best Answer: Pending..

My advice to you: Usually guys like that care a lot about what others say. He probably doesnt want to be nice to you in front of his guy-friends (which is very common among boys his age). This is why he was nice to you when you guys were alone. Everyone is beautiful in their own way so please don't say that about yourself. He may like you, yes. The only way to know for sure is to talk to him aside (away from the people that might affect how he treats you) and ask him how he feels about you. If you don't want to do that, then simply move on. The right time will come eventually but please don't let his boyish acts affect you negatively.