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Lets have some space

11/4/16

So we love our friends right? But sometimes there is tension between two friends. Wether it be from, a secret feeling (there is a story behind that) or just spending to much time together.

I personally am a little bipolar, and can change like the seasons. Mostly it is my friends who suffer the sudden mood swings. And since I have such awesome people around me they just go with the flow.

So here's my predicament, one day we are all fine and dandy then the next day I am snapping at one of them for a reason they don't even know. It really does create tension. The way I deal with it is simply by ditching them and going to do my own thing. I am a very independent person and grow seriously over whelmed when being connected by the hip with someone all day everyday.

Like I said before the answer is simple, have some space, create free time for yourself. And if you have good friends they will respect and understand that you need some space.
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Now if you find out that there is a secret feeling one of your friend has been hiding from you it is a different story. This has happened to me several times and several time I end up dating someone who is not my type.

I am a nonjudger meaning I do not Do Not Judge!!! So I hang out with bi and gays, I've never had a problem with it until one of them asked me out and it got kinda weird.

When you are in a situation like this you have to wonder how to react to this. My exact thoughts were..."I don't want to hurt her feelings." "I need to tell her how it is."... And that's what I did I told them the gentle truth and let her know there are many fish in the sea for her. And it seemed to work we are still good friends and sometimes even home about what happened.
Another time it happened was when I got zapped to ask out one of my friends and he said yes. At first I thought he was kidding but then he asked me if we were really dating. And once again I did not want to hurt his feelings so I said Sure.

It was the wrong thing to say Now that I think about it I really should of told him how it was.
So now I'm dating my friend who is absolutely not my type. My solution is to friend zone him and so far it seems to be working.

So pretty much this chapter was about pointing out that it is ok to get some time away from your friends and when you find out that there is a secret love between one of your friends and you, just friend zone him. If you have anything to add or ask just comment and I'll receive it.

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