God you there?

Do I even need you?

As an Indian child, you are always taught to respect God and pray for something when you need something or when you are in trouble. 'Believe in God everything will be all right' everyone must have heard this right? Well how much of it is true though? What do they even mean when they say that? Does believing in God really help? Guess what? It actually does. Everytime? Nope. How? Depends on you? Again... HOW? Simple... Beleif works if you believe. If you believe that there is someone who is there to back you up if you mess up than you will be a bit less afraid and bit more courageous. A bit more confident than you would have. And even a BIT can make a HUGE difference. Does this work for everyone? Not at all. There are billions of people. Everyone has their own way of life. Everyone has their own way of fighting problems. Some people do not like to depend a lot on others and are in love with their own independence. They are capable of handling their own things and have a lot of confidence. Some people do not consult God but rather consult their friends or family. I am one of them and trust me I dont know about God but having awesome friends (like the one who are reading this book rn) in your life is like a cup of ice-cream with added flavours. How? Ice-cream is awesome without anything extra but with added flavours and everything else you can enjoy ice-cream to its fullest!
See? If you believe in God then it will help you surely. What if you don't... Well as long as you face every challenge with courage you are good to go! But does this mean it's wrong to seek for help to God in times of crisis? Not really. Everyone at some point of times of their life are in a state when they feel broken and shattered. Like there is no reason left for them to live on. All the negative thoughts, all the nightmare become reality. Even the strongest person will break down to tears. Is it wrong? NOT AT ALL. I do believe it's really good to shred some tears. To become weak. Ask for others to help. Why? Because when you know how it feels to be let down, you will try not to hurt other people as much as you can. When you know how weak a person can become you will help someone else come out of it when they are in trouble. When you cry... You will know how beautiful it is to smile. And then you will come be strong. Stronger than you were when you cried yourself to sleep. Stronger than ever. And when you are let down by someone... You will lose a bit of faith in people. At such times God can come handy. If you talk with God, you will get your answers slowly. How? When you talk to God, you basically talk to yourself. You look at what mistakes you did. Then you will slowly realize that hey it's okay this isn't the end there is a lot left to be lived for. There could be someone worried for you. You can't afford to stay broken forever. You will get up! But there is just one problem. It takes time. A lot of time. And this is were people break or make their life. If you give up in this battle with time, then mate you ain't going much far. This is a tough battle. Why? Because here you are actually at war with your ownself. At war with your own emotions. It becomes hard to decide what you want to do. But give it time that's the best medicine. And one more medicine which I found helpful was looking at yourselves in the mirror and talking to yourself. Trying to look at your problem in a different PERSPECTIVE. Ask yourself 'Is this the end?' 'Is this the biggest trouble you will ever face?' And then just smile at yourselves... Just fake a smile and look at yourself. And then you will realize that no this is not the end but just the beginning of a new chapter in life. Appreciate yourself and your smile. Remember no one can smile the way you do it and believe it or not there is someone in this world whose only wish is to see you smile. If you find it difficult to smile for yourself then smile for others sometimes it really makes you happy too! Remember my words when you fall in trouble next time and never give up I repeat NEVER GIVE UP.
So we back at the same thing again. Did the true existence of God matter here ? Was he really present when you asked for his help? Who knows ! Maybe he was.. maybe he wasn't but again doesn't matter in the end because it will help you fight problems. It's not  that you NEED him in order to keep moving on. But it's okay to be weak and seek shelter than to try to act tough and cry internally forever. You can be a GOD to yourselves and help yourself up. But in the end it doesn't matter if you take help or don't unless and until you overcome obstacles and be happy. Afterall isn't that the only thing that matters in the end? If you are happy you are good to go! But remember one thing for sure. Your happiness must not be at the cost of others happiness because that's just hate maybe....

[ That's all for today! Sry this was a bit late update just a bit busy. But I hope you all like it and if you don't then tell me! I will surely try my best to make it good if not best :-) and keep smiling and keep fighting! I'll try my best to bring the next part ASAP :-D
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