You're encouraging him to be small and insignificant.

Time

It is when you are remembered
Or when you are forgotten
It's when you drift away from the people
You thought you once loved
And since you never remember
The people they used to be
I really want two know
Will you remember me?

Now one thing I will ask you
To remember for a while
Is how you used to be with me
And wasted all your time.