Hey guys, this is just a little something that I wrote one day, at the time I was going through a lot and I was really stressed out. But I got over it once I started letting it all out. I hope my words of inspiration makes a difference in someone's life.
The Truth Is. .
Everyone loves to say that they're in love, when in reality "Love" is more than just a word. There's a difference between being in love and loving someone. When you love someone, everything they do makes you happy, you love being around them, & you share something with them that you share with no one else. But when you're in love with someone, you can't live without them, you spend every moment thinking about them, and when you're not with that special someone, you don't feel like yourself; you feel incomplete . They understand you like no one else does.. & when you're hurting or sad, they see right through you.. They're the only person that's on your mind from the moment you wake up in the morning..they're not perfect but they're definitely worth it. The love is unconditional. You'd fight for them..they'd fight for you..you feel a way that you felt with no one else..they're irreplaceable. But things change when you love someone and they tend to love someone else.. When you love someone, you eventually become used to the way that they treat you, it's as if nothing surprises you anymore, even when it's hurt that they bring towards you. You somehow find a way to forgive them because you know that deep down, they're hurting too. But no matter how much you used to love someone, if you really loved that person from the very beginning, that love should follow you, whether you're in a relationship or just complete strangers. However, sometimes you have to let go. Love is all about loyalty and respect. You can't let your love for your ex affect the love for your next because that love eventually leads to a broken heart & that built up hurt leads to regret. Just because someone is your first love, doesn't mean it was meant to be. Just know that you can't make someone love you like you want them to, all you can do is be there for them when they need you the most. But remember, never take someone's love for you for granted, because they won't always be around to be played as the fool. I've learned my lesson and its because of those careless mistakes that I'm a better woman today. I know what I want, I know what I deserve & I know what's best for me. Don't take the small things for granted because those are the things that matter the most and those small things can be taken away from you. The moment you learn to live life for yourself and no one else, the better off you'll be. Because we all know that you can't bring happiness to yourself by bringing misery to other people. Love is something that we should cherish . Love is special..love is hurtful.. Love is tragic. But you shouldn't let a broken heart keep you down forever. So don't find love, let love find you. They say if you love something, set it free, and if it comes back to you then it's yours, but if it doesn't, then it never was. If someone loves you & I mean deeply in love with you, then nothing can stop you two from being together. There's people out there who don't want to see you happy, but you have to be the one to stand by your lover regardless & ignore the bs. Learn to live, love, trust, and let go of things that don't matter..but most importantly, learn to forgive. Forgiveness is important; never hold grudges. Don't waste time...Life's too short to worry about the what ifs. If you're going to make a change in your life, let it be today. Make a promise to yourself that you won't settle for anything less than what you deserve . But don't make a change for someone else, make a change for you. At the end of the day, all you have is you! So do whatever it is that makes you happy because there are no second chances. Life is all about making choices, whether they're good or bad, we eventually learn from them. Your mistake today can be a life lesson tomorrow! Finally, learn to love yourself before loving someone else. Believe in yourself! Know that you have people out there who care about you even when you feel that there is no one & you're all alone in this world. Well, that feeling's a lie & someone out there is crazy about you. We all need a little help sometimes, someone to remind us that it won't always be this way...someone who can hold on to us and remind us over & over again that everything's gonna be okay...someone who can be there for us when the world has turned their back against us...someone who we tell everything to because we know they'll brighten our day...someone who is with us till the very end & will stick by our because they know that a friendship is much more important than any guy or girl.. That someone who will stand by you till the very end! That someone is out there & that someone will find you. ❤
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There were actually parts taken out because at first it was a huge part about me referring to the two guys that I was actually in love with and hurt by at the same time, so I guess you can say they are the reason I wrote this. Nah fuck that, let's be real I wrote this so that women won't fall for the same bs ass lies that I fell for and to let you all know that everyone is beautiful no matter how you feel on the inside and you won't always have all the right answer.. But it doesn't hurt to vent and express yourself.
