Celibacy : How to be single and well-balanced

Number theory

Themen who have many conquests are Don Juan and the women who exceed acertain number of lovers become purely "inmariables"according to some obsolete rules that unfortunately persist inmentalities. But from how many lovers a woman passes from the statusof princess to that of catin who has too much amused for the nuptials? What is the limit?

Moviesor some discussions on the subject evoke an average of twenty loversfor a woman, as a course not to be exceeded. Very well but on howlong and how can we still fear to confess the number of her loversunder penalty of passing for a girl light or not serious? Most womenadmit to me that they diminish the number of their lovers, while menuse little to do this, preferring to play the strength of theexperience.

Therehas been so much evolution in feminism and gender equality ! I am notsaying that imagining his or her partner with a slew of other peopleis cheerful, but it is an integral part of our history, our pastexperiences that defined who we are, whether we are male or female.

Whatinterests me is the ratio tolerated by well-thinking morality thatwould be three times higher for men than for women. Even though wehave the limit of the female body to give life, there is in no way alimit that menopause us psychologically or physically from havingmore sexual partners.

Themorals evolve because the duration of celibacy increases whichnecessarily induces more encounters, so I think it is necessary toforget the a priori linked to the differences, that is age, socialenvironment, color of skin, culture or religion, just like the numberof partners that everyone has known. All of this is a set that makesus unique and defines us as the other must love us, without lies orartifices. So assume and do not stay with a partner only for the gazeof others or not to make too many encounters, as I happen to see itregularly in my entourage, even if the subject remains very discreet.The priority is to assume, not to be ashamed of its past and even toclaim it, and honesty will allow you to be in agreement with yourselfand to open the dialogue with your half if the subject raises someblockages.

PersonallyI reflect before acting and offering myself to a man because it mustremain a privilege to see me naked on the one hand, and an importantand romantic act on the other hand. However, we can rarely knowbefore experiencing a relationship, which is accompanied by ephemeralrelationships and disappointments as well as good surprises. I alsohave friends who want to enjoy themselves first and foremost as goodepicureans and they are quite right not to deprive themselves! Aslong as we assume and find someone who loves us as we are, with ourpast and our desires there is no need for a chastity belt, just totalk together.