This is just the way of the world

Friends

*Do you ever feel lonely while being with your friend?
Yung tipong hindi ka kasama sa bond nila.
You don't even know what they are talking about.
Well I experienced it not just once but all of the time.
I feel left.
I feel rejected.
I feel alone.
Well here is some advice.
1) You should be vocal with your feelings and thoughts but in a good and respectful way. You should open up with them after all they are your friends.

2) If the first step got failed. You should try to explore. Get new friends. Kahit isa lang atleast you won't be left alone. Wag kang mahihirapan iwan yung mga kaibigan mo hindi ka na nga nila kinakausap o sinasama pinipilit mo parin ipagsiksikan ang sarili mo.

*Yung tipong pinaghirapan mong makasama sa group nila but you got the news that you're being used.
Did you ever feel that way?
Well me? Actually I became that used one and I also became the one who is using.
Here are some tips
1) if you heard that kind of news be sensitive. Pakiramdaman mo kung takaga bang ginagamit ka nila wag kang magbulag bulagan mahirap na stage yan.

2) If you feel that the rumors are true be strong confront them. Sila ang mali dapat alam nila yun wag na wag kang madadala sa salitang 'NANGHIHINAYANG' Dahil sa huli ikaw lang ang kawawa.

3) If they told you that it is true in a good way for example they apologized then be with them but kapag ginamit ka ulit nila umalis ka na you don't deserve that kind of friendship. Wag manghihinayang!

4) if they told you that it is true in a bad attitude well you should stop being with them wala kang makukuha sa kanila.  

Remember:👣
Ginamit ka nila ibig sabihin there is something with you that they can't do. Kaya no need to feel sad leaving them.

Speacial advice 😻
"You don't have to change yourself just to be accepted"
Mas maganda nang mareject while being your self atleast masaya ka sa ginagawa mo hindi yung naiipit ka sa friendship na hindi ka naman masaya sa bagong ikaw.

"You don't have to brag about yourself just to get new friends"
Wag kang mag mayabang sabi ko nga mas maganda ng maging ikaw atleast nakakuha ka ng mga kaibigan kaya kang tanggapin bilang ikaw. Wag kang mas sasabi ng mga bagay na alam mo namang kasinungalingan lang imbes na magkaroon ka ng kaibigan baka siraan ka pa nila at gawing katatawanan.

"Be vocal with your thoughts"
In a good way. Don't use harsh words with them.
Here is some scenes for example.
-Narinig mo ang kaibigan mo na may sinabing hindi maganda tungkol sa iyo you should say "kung ayaw mo sa akin then tell me you shouldn't be shy with your feelings I will gladly accept the criticisms"

"Learn that not everyone will be glad having you"
Wag kang maiinis kung may sinabing di maganda ang isang tao sayo utak nila yan bibig nila yan hindi lahat ng tao magugustuhan ka learn that one.

"Don't be with someone who will make you a bad one"
Kung alam mo ng ikakapahamak mo wag ka ng sumama. Try to reject them by saying no. Hindi mo ikakamatay anglagsabi ng hindi wala silang magagawa kung ayaw mo. Kapag sinatan ka na nila try to run away hindi pagiging duwag ang pag takbo actuallyit will make you more a good person.