I should post this on my rants but i don't care. So, if my family says ANYTHING about you YOU ARE OKAY THEY ARE NOT TRYING TO BE MEAN jFc it's a normal thing. If they really did hate you they probably would cuss you out secretly in a whisper tone. SHADY AS FUCK I KNOW. They also are passive aggressive. One time my friends mom (which is Mexican) told me, "you got skinnier." I also humiliated myself by mispronouncing a word I NEVER FUCKING LEARNED HOW WAS I SUPPOSED TO KNOW. So yeah. If they call you "flacaita" (you're pretty but skinny) or "gordita"(pretty and thicc ;]) or "nalgona"(pretty but You got a nice butt) THEY ARENT BEING RUDE
IF THEY WERE THEY SAY THINGS LIKE "GORDA" OR SHIT LIKE THAT. IF IT HAS 'ITA' AT THE END THEY ARE JUST PLAYING WITH YOU. SO YEAH. ALSO IF YOU ARE MEXICAN THAT IS MY INTERPRETATION OF FLACITA,GORDITA, AND NALGONA OKAY. I HAVE MINE, YOU HAVE YOURS.
Kms :)))