If we really think about it, the people we're close to right now won't really be there for you in the future. Everybody leaves, even family. Throughout your life, at some point we're all bound to loose everything within our emotional and/or physical reach. It'll all fade away, just like right now without even realizing it until it's already been too late. As we get older we start to realize things and are labeled by younger or less experienced people. Without thinking, they judge and label something they haven't or couldn't read. They say one thing and call it a reality, but it is only their fantasy that they want to visualize and create into a reality. So they do so, with or without trying or even realizing. And so this problem continues, as some go through it as young as high school or maybe even middle school, others a little bit later. As for me, I've only realized and brought it up late, but I'm sure we all have our secrets.