LGBT Advice

Not A Choice

A lot of people say being gay is a choice and that gay people are just confused or anyone that is LGBT for that matter.

That is not true and that is one thing that makes me mad when people say or suggest that.

Let me stop you right there if you think that. Being gay is not a choice. You just don't wake up one day and decide you are going to be gay or bisexual or lesbian. It's just not possible.

Your either gay or your not. Your either a lesbian or your not.

I had a really close friend until one day we got In a huge argument and the argument was so childish that it wasn't even worth getting in to.

I'm not giving any names but my friend is a guy and he had been having trouble with his girl friend because she had been lying to him about where she be going or who she be with and it always seem like she would be avoiding him.

Anyway make a long story short he caught he her with his best friend in his bedroom and soon after that he ended up breaking up with her and losing his best friend.

I felt sorry about what happened to him but only for a while. I took him out to eat to comfort him and to get his mind off his ex. But that didn't exactly happen he told that he was done with dating.

I thought he meant dating in general but I wasn't sure so I asked him again and he said he wasn't done dating, dating but he was done dating women. this is where I got confused so I asked him what did he mean by that and he said he was done dating women because they are cruel and women are just complicated so he might as well be gay.

I told him it didn't work like that and you just can't choose to be gay and he told me yes he can because I choose to be gay.

That made me mad and so I got up and walked away without a explanation as to why I walked away and until this day I still haven't talked to him. eventually I will but right now not a chance.

My point is if your gay then you always been gay you just didn't realize it until now or didn't figure it out until now