unpopular opinions

[5] its okay

this isn't a rant or a thing about me
this is for you, whoever you are that's reading this.

okay so i know that in this day and age, more people are feeling self conscious or depressed or honestly just feeling not good enough. and i know that a lot of people out here in this big world need reassurance and need to feel loved.

so i thought i would post a thing that could maybe, hopefully help someone out to read.

first i wanna say that, i know that most of the things i'm about to say are annoying to hear and that you have probably heard them about 1000 times before, but hey, maybe 1001 is the lucky number that'll make you believe them.

so lemme get started . . .

1. it is okay to be not okay.
- meaning, don't beat yourself up for being sad about something. don't beat yourself up for being angry or for feeling any type of negative emotions. you are human, and humans have emotions. if something small happens to you and you get super anger over it, that is okay. your feelings matter. 

2. it is okay to have acne, scars, cellulite, chub, or having absolutely no chub at all.
-meaning, if you are 5'1" (61 inches) and 170 pounds (77 kg) that is okay. if you are 5'7" (68 inches) and 109 pounds (49 kg) that is okay. as long as you are healthy and the keyword is h e a l t h y, then it is perfectly okay.
if you have acne, that is NORMAL. everyone gets it, you can lie all you want but everyone gets at least one pimple in their life. it is normal.
having scars are normal. acne scars are normal. scars from accidents: normal. scars from anything: normal.
don't beat yourself up for having things that make you, you.

3. it is okay to be nervous, anxious, depressed, etc.
-meaning, those are human emotions that everyone has. having one of them (or multiple) is a normal thing.
*having depression or any mental illness is a bit different, i know but it is still a normal thing to deal with those types of emotions*

4. everyone feels insecure in their life.
-boys do, and that is okay. girls do, and that is okay. people who do not associate themselves with a gender do, and that is okay.

5. it is okay to not feel the gender you are born.
-i don't care what hateful people say/think about this one. if you were born a female but you feel like that is not you, that is OKAY. and vice versa. no one is perfect and that includes God. He can make mistakes and put you in the wrong body. it happens all the time.

6. being different is beautiful.
-everyone on this planet is beautiful. you are beautiful. you will always be beautiful. the way your mind works is a wonderful thing and it is beautiful. the way you look, is beautiful. regardless of shape, size and color, we are all beautiful.

7. you are and will always be loved by someone.
-whether that someone is your parents, friends, children, family members, pets, a random stranger that saw you in the store one day and feel in temporary love, it doesn't matter. there is someone out there that loves you.

you are all wonderful sunshines who deserve all the compassion the world can give to you, but sometimes it doesn't work out that way.

if the world has been cruel to you, i apologize on its behalf. some people do not see your importance and significance and they decide to shit on you for it, when really it is their fault.

or they do see it and they shit on you to make you look bad so they can take the spotlight. a lot of people on this earth are just jealous spiteful creatures, and it sucks.

but even the jealous, spiteful people on this planet are a thing of beauty. they do what they do because they are insecure and do not know how to handle their emotions correctly.

all they need is a little help, and you could be the one to help them.

the golden rule at my elementary school was, "treat others the way you want to be treated" and i think we need to remember that.

so if you are the jealous person who does not know how to handle their jealously in a healthy way, i want you to think about the golden rule. i want you to remember it and say it to yourself before you go up to someone you are jealous of and act meanly towards them.

and if you are the little sunflower who needs help getting watered so you can stop wilting, i want you to remember that a sunflower is beautiful. even vincent van gogh thought that. so go grab a drink of water and build yourself back up.

because only you can fix yourself. of course with the help of others it goes faster.

but who can you trust more than yourself?

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if anyone needs anything, my phone is always in my hand and i will gladly try my hardest to help you through tough times. just send me a pm.

remember: you are a beautiful and loved human being.