Ishqbaaz aka the lovers

Dreams

Rudra asks if sons are VIPS for their moms, why not bahus, if moms treat their sons like first class citizens, why don't they treat bahus like this. Shivaye says everyone has different point of view, whats there to worry. Om says if girl has to go out and work, it should be her choice, she does not need permission. Shivaye says the truth is mostly girls want to marry rich girl and settle, ask any girl about the qualities she is finding in her would be husband, she would say well settled. Om asks how can you think so low. Shivaye says its not just my thinking, everyone has same thinking. Rudra says we should ask someone's advice who is more intelligent. Dadi says we all did crime to break Jhanvi's dreams, not just Tej. Rudra asks Tej why did he not let Jhanvi become CEO. Pinky says bahu's dreams

always broke in this house. Shivaye says mom....
Some time before, Om goes to Rudra and asks why did you not go to workout. Rudra says I don't want to go, I m thinking about girls, I don't mean that way I think daily, I m thinking of the discussion happened yesterday, there are many issues. Shivaye comes and asks what issues are there in your life now. Rudra says I m thinking of girls' issues, Mallika said right, I m much affected by what she said, why don't we give equal rights to girls, if sons are VIPS for their moms, why not bahus, if moms treat their sons like first class citizens, why don't they treat bahus like this, all girls got touchy during discussion yesterday, even Priyanka spoke up. Shivaye says everyone has different point of view, whats there to worry.

Om says of course, this is matter to worry, sons and bahus are equally imp in a family, why are bahus taken for granted. Shivaye says you both are getting emotional, its not a big issue. Om says its big issue, if my mum thinks her career is compromised after marriage, if Mallika feels her inlaws think her career is a joke, then its big thing for me. Shivaye argues with Om and says it happens as people take huge expectations in a relation, the ground rule is every marriage is a deal, and both are equal partners, one has to go out and earn money, other has to manage home, if both do their work, no one will have problem.

Om asks who pre-decides this responsibilities, why can't girls go out and earn. Shivaye says they can work, if bahu wants to pursue career, her inlaws should allow. Om asks why should inlaws allow her, that is the problem that inlaws and husband should allow, do sons require permission to go out and work, if bahus want to work, it should be her choice, you mean to say, will Tia need your permission if she wants to work. Shivaye says Tia and I have spoken already, she does not want to work, I will manage business, she will manage house and then children.

Om asks why don't you manage kids, let her manage business, whats the problem. Shivaye says we already spoke and it's a deal, it can't change now. Om says every relation is a deal for you. Shivaye argues and says I m talking practical and honest, everyone do not say this, but everyone believes this in society, feminism, equality, rights, keep these big words aside and come to reality. He says truth is mostly girls want to marry rich guys and settle, they want their husbands to earn and manage their expenses, ask any girl, what qualities she looks for in her husband, first thing will be well settled, did you see any upper middle class girl marrying a poor guy by falling in love with him, leave girls, their parents find well settled guys in matrimonial ads and sites, bank balance is the top priority.

Om asks him to understand, there are every type of people in the world, yes there are some girls who find easy route, but there are some girls who do not need anything and want to do something on her own. Shivaye says I agree, but whats the percentage, that's just 5%. Om asks how is your thinking so small. Shivaye says everything thinks so, your idea of an ideal relationship does not exist in this world, I know everyone want comfortable life. Om says I don't want that, I want such life and relation which is on honesty and equality. Shivaye say then sit on pink cushion wearing that red jacket. Om says I have confusion about space in a relation, not equality.