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Trust me, we've all had this problem. I am still struggling to confess to my crush. Well, today is your lucky day! Today we are going to be learning how to confess to your crush! :D
Step one: Get to know your crush better
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Talk to your crush and get to know them better. You can even do simple things like sitting at their table at lunch, talking to them in your free time, light flirting, (c;) and many other ways. When you get to know them better, you can share interests and have more topics to bring up in conversations.
Step two: Do some of the things they enjoy
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If they like reading, read some of the books they favor. If they like to watch movies, watch some of the movies they enjoy. If you do this, they will be more interested in you, because you enjoy what they enjoy. But, only do it if your interest sparks in that thing. Maybe they like star wars and you don't. If you don't like starwars, then don't force yourself to watch it just to impress them. If you're interested in starwars, then watch it and then talk about it to them. They will lose some interest in you if you know what it is but show lack of interest to it.
Step three: Set up a date
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Set up a date for when to confess to your crush. After you get to know them, you might know the days when they're free. If they are a busy person, knowing their schedule is important. Maybe they have a free period before lunch. Maybe you can tell them then. Trust me, planning is everything. They won't always come if you send them a note to meet somewhere. Keep that in mind when you're planning.
Step four: Confessing
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This is the second hardest part of this process. But if you stay calm, things might work out. When confessing to your crush, crack some jokes to make them laugh. That will make them feel less tense and more comfortable. When they ask you what you wanted to talk about, say something a little like this: "Alex/Alexia, I wanted to tell you that I have feelings for you. So that's why I asked you to meet me alone." (I put Alex/Alexia because these are unisex tips ^·^) When confessing, make sure you have these things:
·Eye contact even if you start turning into a tomato ·Restricted physical contact (no touching, hugging, or getting to close until they give you an answer (Only hug, touch, or get close if they share feelings)) ·And lastly, confidence (boys and girls love that)
Also, let them have time to decide. Don't freak them out or pressure them.
If they share feelings, then take your relationship slow and steady. Slow and steady wins the race!
Lastly, step five: Accepting Rejection
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This is by far the HARDEST part of confessing to your crush. But you have to realise, that just because they turned you down, doesn't mean you can't be friends. Even if they are harsh about it, there are plenty more fish in the sea. If you get turned down, its best to move on. Don't sulk your entire life about one person. Move on and be free! Express yourself no matter what obstacle comes in your way. Live long and prosper.
Anyways, I hope this was helpful! Comment suggestions for posts and also comment your craziest crush experience! (Because I wanna know ;3)
Have a good day! (Depending on the time zone you're in :3)
