I have always liked watching trapeze walkers in the circus, or people who can balance something on their head or chin or other body part without letting it fall. Balance is a learned art for sure. When we first learn to walk, balance is what we struggle with , just like learning to ride a bike without training wheels. So many things in life require balance and it can be quite difficult to ever get the hang of.
Balancing life is the hardest of all i think. So ma ny different things that come at us, that we find ourselves drawn too, even things we know in our heart of hearts are bad for us. Pain and heartache affect balance. If we are hurting deeply, especialy if it involving a bf or gf or a special frind of the same gender, balancing becomes next to impossible as we teeter on the edge, wondering if the pain wil lever cease, if anything will ever be the same again. Heartache can seem like an eternity when it is happening.
Hope is there though. Breakthroughs can happen, sometimes a change must take place and the relationship does not stay the same. All of us must be open to finding new loves, new relationships new opportunities. Opening ourselves to being wounded and hurt is never easy, never wanted, always a struggle. The opposite though is like a living death. Always find ways to reach out, share, seek advice or just a hug and a presence. Just stay open let balance find its way with you. Peace and Love.
