How to spot a fake Dom
1.) They ask for nudes and insists you do whatever they say within hours of meeting you.
2.) Doesn't give you structure. Doesn't act like a Dom. There are no rules. No bed times. Nothing.
3.) Their compliments exclusively focus on your appearance, so they say things like "you look great" and "your boobs are amazing", but you never get a compliment on your personality or character.
4.) Is suspiciously quick to punish you. You're always being told you've "been a bad girl", you always feel like you're not doing enough to make them happy.
5.) They only ever really engaged in the convo when they need something. Other times they're distant and barely tolerates you. You feel like you're bugging them.
6.) Their profile icon is a picture of their genital's, or of them shirtless, or something dumb like that.
7.) They never really feel like your Dom, the relationship feels empty and hollow. You still feel alone.
8.) Calls you pet names so often that it becomes nauseating. Ends every sentence with "little one" and "princess" and "little girl"; it comes across like they're trying too hard.
9.) They don't seem interested about learning more about DD/lg and BDSM.
10.) Can be very mean and hurtful when they don't get his way. Doesn't understand how sensitive littles can be and is quick to make harsh personal comments.
11.) Ignores boundaries and punishes you for setting them.
•Please help spread the word about these people if you know of someone in the community acting in this way and you feel comfortable share who they are so others can avoid them.
My Experiences with fake Doms
I have posted in some CGL chatrooms and said my messages were open but clearly stated that I was a minor and didn't want any adults to message me. Many people messaged me and were kind and of a similar age to me. Some people would message but when I said I didn't want anything sexual they quit responding. It can be rude to just quit talking to someone but if what you want in a relationship doesn't align with what the other person wants continuing to peruse the relationship isn't a good idea. There were a few people though who didn't respect my boundaries and messaged me even though they were in their 20s. When I told them my age (at the time 13/14) they said it wasn't a problem and that I needed someone with experience. They also pressured me to include sex in a potential relationship. I blocked them and moved on but for someone else their minipulation could have worked. I dont want to scare anyone but I want them to be cautious about who they are talking to.
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CGLRE Guide
Non-FictionA guide to CGLRE/AGERE aka age regression. This guide is 100% SFW!! There will be chapters for littles and care givers. Comment or dm me if you have a request.
