Gia,
I do not understand why you felt the need to write to me about James. There is nothing to our 'relationship'. If he could not tell you what happened between us. Then it is not my place to say. He has decided to leave me in the past and decided to forget me. I am sorry I am no help, but I am truly moving on from this. He has moved on and so have i.
Also congratulations on your engagement! I wish you both the best in marriage and in life. :)
From,
Lana