EXtension

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Hi readers. I'm congratulating you for being brave that you still wanna read this. But this chapter would be very bloody. I mean..you really might fight with your partner. 

I just want to remind you that this article does not intend to hurt you people, or to riddle things up for somebody, or whatever else that will struck your mind bad about this and the author. This book is entirely innocent. This is only a guide so you would not run down the stairs of bloody pebbles before realizing that it was your heart. Ok? So chill down. Because there are only two reasons why you are getting mad. First, you're guilty, and Two, you can't accept the fact that you are, somehow, wrong. Before proceeding to our topic, again, do not read if you are too selfish. But don't forget that you can still say sorry and make things right..Please do not let yourself be eaten by your pride. 

"Girls know.", they say.

Girls know. They just know. Even they don't they would know. And they understand this because they know.

Girls know how other people flirt,  more than guys do. It is why most of the times, the feeling of  the girls goes real. But only most of the time, and Not every time, of course.

Because, as I know, girls flirt more than guys do. Pretty much of a bad thing. And when boys flirt girls, probably starting with 'hi', girls know what's happening. So girls automatically gets mad, OR ride the act. But when girls flirt boys, it is a different bad thing also. Because boys tend to just let the girls do the flirting, without giving meaning to it. BUT IN REALITY, the girls are flirting them. This is a note for boys. Please have the eye for your partner. BE VIGILANT.

So what happens is that the guy's girlfriend will get jealous and the guy will get sad. Or sometimes, it is vice versa. When the girl rides the act of an another guy, her boyfriend gets jealous and she gets mad. xD But both could be sad or mad depending on the level of love the partner have for his/her partner.

Now speaking of jealousy, many couples fight because of getting jealous 'bout the Ex's. You can't deny the fact that if you still have IT in there, there would always be an EX-tension when u see previous bae. (Science can also explain that, but i would not put it in here too much. We don't like much sciences when reading these right.) When you still like the person, dopamine and other chemicals are released that affects your brain. So of course, if you still like the other person, ur ex gf or ex crush, then don't you ever stick with another girl whom you call your girlfriend. Having another partner to be the bridge of moving on is of no good. 

If you haven't moved on yet, and you want to, According to Dream (2016), Be reasonable. Logic, which rarely enters into thinking about crushes, can help you escape them the obsessive thinking. Write down a message to yourself detailing all the reasons why your crush is impractical. It might help! Psychiatrists tell us that putting your thoughts into words on paper (or in the computer) helps to point out logical fallacies. This, again, can help you escape the obsessive thinking. But things need time, so give yourself time and don't think too much about the pain. Try to give no sympathy to your memories. 

And, Most of all, DON'T TRY TO KEEP THE CHANCE ALIVE THAT YOU TWO CAN STILL BE TOGETHER. Stop keeping it. Even after you moved on, don't keep the chance alive, especially if you are a guy, because girls know. 

Keeping the chance of being close again with your ex is just the same as two timing. Because even you think you had already moved on, there will always be a greater chance of having it in your core again, because you did it once. There's a big possibility that you would automatically take care of your ex how you did in the past  without you knowing that you are already doing it

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