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The Real Work

"People don't change. They needed time to look for themselves."

People really don't change as a person. I mean, if he's born to be a killer he would. There's no changing fate. But you can make your fate better.

If you are born to stumble and fall, then let it be. But make sure you stumble and fall on a trampauline. It, then, won't hurt. Let's make a way to come back to the real world, and not that imaginary world you enter when you're in love. That world is blind. This world is what's real. If you have a bad fate in love, maybe you need to love somebody, and that somebody is yourself. Let's make a way, so the fall would not hurt as much as before. That way is called a defense mechanism. 

You defend yourself from something, and it became just normal for your personality.

But do not overuse your defense.

On the past chapters, I've been taking about being vigilant of flirts. That, is also a defense mechanism. (again, to save your hearts in case of heartwars) 

But as I also said before, people don't change. Normally, people would acquire characteristics based in Likas na Batas Moral- a moral law indicating that all human beings normally move towards righteousness and good morality. It is why we have conscience attacking us when we know we are being bad.  So again, people don't change. They became bad because they wanted it. They covered their REAL SELF, not knowing it was wrong. Simply because we are humans and we make mistakes. And only true love can take off the cover the had lived in. 

Speaking of true love, if your partner really loves you, she/he would take off the cover for you. As simple as that. But we are humans, again, and we need time to take off the cover. It is why you need to forgive.

You need to Close your eyes. 

Remember all the good things you two had been through. 

Remember all the sacrifices he/she had made for you, and not your sacrifices.

Remember all the waves, both great and small,  you surfed together.

Remember all the laughter  and cries you and your partner survived.

Remember all the crashes, dangers, adventures.. And you both stood there together...watching everything fall into place..

Remember how you both stood strong..

Remember why you even gave yourselves a chance.

Then remember the pain you feel right now. Reading this. Then again, remember. 

Remember why you even gave yourselves a chance.

Remember how you both stood strong..

Remember all the crashes, dangers, adventures.. And you both stood there together...watching everything fall into place..

Remember all the laughter and cries you and your partner survived.

Remember all the waves, both great and small, you surfed together.

Remember all the sacrifices he/she had made for you, and not your sacrifices.

Remember all the good things you two had been through.

Remember your life before and now.

Then ask yourself.. Does the pain ( you feel right now)  withstand the happiness of your memories together?

Open your eyes.

If the answer is yes, then better get off your bed and go back home. Cry all you want. You need to move on. Write down everything that hurt you so much. Keep on writing why you got hurt. Sooner ..you'll smile again. =)

If the answer is no, then go hug your partner. At this very moment, or as soon as possible don't say a word and just hug your love. Your partner deserves a second chance. =) Chill down. Everything's going to be alright.

hahahah man, you know what readers, at this very moment my partner is very sad. I made a mistake this morning. He made mistakes to me, in the past, for he is a human. And I kinda pushed him pass the line. I should've controlled myself earlier. I did not intend to hurt him. I do not intend to tell him that he has a debt to pay for his lifetime just because of the mistakes he made.

 I am very wrong people, to say things without thinking about his feelings just because he made mistakes. And I am really teary-eyed right now. I just realized this after writing this chapter, and after doing the above procedure of remembering things. That I still love my partner more than ever, and I'm still happy with him. And I'm still staying despite all the bad things that had happened, because my happiness still overcome the pain. I need to forgive. 

Oh now I wanna hug him.. I should say sorry. xD hehe

Goodluck readers!