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TRUTH vs. REALITY

Hey readers, I want you to know that you deserve to give yourself a second chance. You've been great, still reading 'till this chapter. This only means that you are eager to change for good, and you really love your partner. I think it's fine to feel a bit proud! Keep it up. =)

For rest, I will bring a lightweight topic. Comparing truth and reality. If you are single, you are really benefited by this stuff. If you are in a relationship, this will help you in identifying flirts in your life.

Example!

TRUTH- He/She treats you so special ; REALITY- He/She treats everybody else special.

          TRUTH is the expectation. Reality defines what it really is, without the expectation.

So this means that if you are single, do not assume too much. I swear, you will just get hurt. 

Readers, there are people who just want attention. They are those very itchy people, eager to get all the sympathy whenever they want, because that fills their thirsty stamina. These are the people considered worse than a whore because sooner or later, they make themselves a whore according to their very own will. Slowly, but surely.

           Things can be faked. That is why I kept repeating the word 'vigilant' ,earlier, because things might be different from what you think it is. Just like the given example above, we admit that he/she does something that makes you feel unique. But that doesn't mean he/she have feelings for you, because he/she actually do that to everybody. And it only means that the person treating you, and everybody else special, is clearly a flirt.

THIS makes the difference of     'friends'     from      'girlfriends/boyfriends . 

Partners needs to make their own partners feel unique. How? By simply NOT TREATING OTHERS HOW YOU TREAT YOUR PARTNER. You are naturally sweet to your partner, so you shouldn't be sweet to other people. Why? Because Other people are not your partner.

 If you treat other people like your partner, that is already flirting. 

             Please do not get mad if your partner sees little bad things about you and wants to make it right. Remember big things comes from little things. 

              If you think letting other girls/boys touch your hand is innocent, well you're doomed. Look people. Read carefully. If you think it's okay to be even kinda close to an opposite sex, then you are a very bad partner. If you think it's okay to fight your partner to save your friend who's always been the main reason why you always fight, then you're really really numb. Too numb. Common sense. You already have your partner. 

This is also a reason why you need to be vigilant. You never know when somebody is already fixing your brain, playing it thoroughly without notice. So LEARN TO LISTEN TO YOUR PARTNER because you may not know what you do, but your partner does. Do not complain, just listen. And realize.

If you treat other people like your partner, that is already flirting.   

Even kissing or holding hands started from just a touch of skin. Even it doesn't mean a malicious act to you, it does for your partner. It's not that your partner doesn't have trust. But because First, you both also started there, and Second, because your partner deserves to be treated unique. And third, you never know what might happen even if you think you do. Bigger things come from little things. Besides, you and your so called 'friends' can communicate without a special treatment. So why do so?          There's only one main reason.              

 YOU'RE A FLIRT WHO NEVER GETS CONTENTED OF ONLY ONE PARTNER. You want to touch and treat everybody else so special like you're a secret admirer. You find it fun because it fills your thirst for other opposite sex.  If you can't distance yourself from opposite sex people, you should know how your partner pretends to be happy everyday with you, but deep inside your partner bleeds and dies while seeing you smile. You're making your partner the BIGGEST FOOL ever. Have conscience.

That time you asked your girl to be yours, or that time when you said yes to your guy,  is also the time you promised you can love him/her more than yourself.

               If you love your partner, you should've been  glad to change for him/her. And not complain about it. 

No, it's okay to cry if you want there's nothing wrong with it. If things are already sinking in, you need to accept it. Accept that you were insensitive, and numb and bad. Go cry.And pray. This time you need rest. Plan, how to start being a BETTER PARTNER for you both and your future family..

LEARN TO LISTEN TO YOUR PARTNER. 

Because you can't see what you do with your own eyes.

 You DO NOT KNOW what you don't know.