How to Deal with Controlling Parents

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By having controlling parents, we
cannot avoid it because we know that they just want whats best their kids. In some situation parents tend to control their child that they dont realize that they are suffocating or choking their child, that even their life is being controlled picking friends for their kids, picking the childs course in college, telling them what they should be when they grow up. This are some of the situation that some children go through; how do childten tell their parents that with what they are doing is not making them happy and only making the parents happy.

We should know the perfect time when to bring up a certain topic, with your parents you could talk through after dinner or when watching tv or when your parents are relax. We have to remember that we should be calm when approaching the topic when telling your parents you are not happy with the course they have picked for you and you want to pursue something else.  We should stand up and not be scared to tell our parents how we feel when we are controlled by them and that sometimes you are scared to say something to your parents that you keep your mouth shut and just take it in and carry the burden with you. It is not right learn to fight for what you want to be and achieve the dreams that you want no matter your decision is your parents will always always support you no matter what and will your number 1 fan and supporter forever. I want you to remember to always respect your parents no matter how controlling they can get, they do their best to put a roof over our head and food to our stomach but sometimes they just forget that you are capable of making your own decision.

Go achieve your dreams in life no matter how controlling your parents are talk to them and talk ot out as a family and trust me from worse to best by talking it out your bond as a family continues to get stronger and stronger.

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How to deal with controlling parents
Sender:maskbeauty
Age:18

Here you go maskbeauty I hope I was able to help you somehow with your problem.

QOTD: I think the best thing that we can do for our children is to allow them to do things for themselves, allow them to be strong, allow them to experience life on their own terms, allow them to take the subway... let them be better people, let them believe more in themselves.

--C. Joybell C.

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