A Pocket Full of Dreams

Part 2

Okay so let's talk a lil bit about MEN.

I'll be honest, beards scare me a bit they make men look so grown. However, smash a 5 o'clock shadow.

While we're on the topic of qualities that are a hard smash, I will list a few.

-Funny. My humor is  more quirky or whatever so if someone can bond with me I LOVE. However, my type of humor has to be something that could be on Bob's Burgers. Their humor is clean and pure I love it so much, it is so wholesome. If you're saying something that the show wouldn't, then I don't want to hear it because chances are it will make me feel uncomfy.

-Woke. It's 2018, why is it so hard for people to be respectful and acknowledge that we don't have equality and that we need to do something to change that. Also yuh we have to be conscious of the world around us, not just ourselves. Just because you're not offended by something doesn't mean someone else isn't. 

-Manners. Say please and thank you because life is too short to not be nice to people. Don't chew with your mouth open because I will say a prayer that a fly flies in your mouth and then you'll look stupid. Hold the door open for someone, it takes a second to make sure that the person behind you is in contact with the door after you.  

-Optimistic. I love a person that smiles and laughs a lot! Sure, life sucks sometimes, but you have to be grateful for what you have or else you'll just be sad all the time. Sometimes you have to be brave, put on a smile, and hope for the best.

-Into self care: please make sure you don't smell bad, brush your teeth, and a personal thing for me is not wearing sweats all the time because the right fit can make you feel like you're on top of the world and that boosts my mood because I feel like I'm representing me. Also walks are nice :)

-Growth mindset!! Always trying to learn from your mistakes and be a better person!  Loves to learn in general. Makes you ambitious! You can mold yourself into anyone you want to be and you are the only one holding yourself back.

-Excitable. You want to try and do new things. The little things make you happy and you can get hype.

-Confidence! People with higher levels of confidence tend to be less possessive and jealous. Since they are happy with themselves they often don't make others feel bad. I understand that it's hard to feel confident 24/7 but as long as you're happy with yourself for the most part you're fine. It's all about discovering yourself, who you want to be, and what makes you happy. 

-Supportive. They listen to you. Offer you advice. Hype you up. Help you out. ALWAYS willing to communicate. Remember things. Care bout you and your happiness. 

-Patient. Doesn't make you feel pressured in any aspect. Respects you and your progress. Doesn't make others or you feel bad in area you might lack, but rather is supportive.

Thank you for listening. I feel like these traits are so important in just being a happy person!!