Self worth

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Me as a teenager  myself,I worry about my self worth,I worry about whether what I do is good enough  or  not. In fact I've rewritten this chapter five times over just because I was afraid it wouldn't be good enough.

I know I haven't  solved my insecurities or my problems,but I'm just here to talk about self worth.  Hence the chapter name "Self worth",anyways  I'm not trying to be an inspirational speaker or a therapist,this is just  something I have...in my head. That i know for a fact everyone think's about.

Everyday,we as humans,especially teenagers, worry about our self worth,worry about what we do or what have is good enough. We worry whether we'll  be accepted,because in  a world or a millennial  world we live in,our phones,social medias,and body's,seem to determine our self worth. Nine out of Ten teenagers and people  are depressed, mainly because  of their social media. Me myself is guilty  of this,I was once at a point where  I determined  my existence  on my instagram.

I and alot of other people  determine  their self worth on social media,because of society.

Alot of people  determine their  Self worth on whether they have a likeable personality. People  in our day and age are constantly judged  constantly critiqued. Then when they change,they're  not liked then either,and that leads to alot of depression  and anxiety.

Someone  who determines their self  worth on the person they are for society. Aren't  even determining their own self worth they're determining  someone's self worth  who is a remake of them with lies.  Again  people and me my  self we determine  our self worth on an opinion,on an opinion  that society puts upon us from day one.

Once again we're determining  who we are and our self worth on society,and society's opinion.

I guess what I'm trying  to say is,don't let society,someones opinion,or someones oppressive orders determine your self worth.

Like,for example, don't determine  whether your good enough  or not ,on your parter as in Boyfriend, girlfriend, wife husband, nonbinary better half. As much as you love them don't  let them determine your self worth, because  at the end of the day they're  just as insecure as you,and they have not right --excuse the language '-- but they have no right talking  shit, when they're in the same shit you are.

Don't let society,an opinion, a loved one,a partner  or a person ,no  matter the gender pronoun determine  your self worth,only you can determine  your self worth  by being the best you can be,and always trying to better your self .

Don't determine  your self worth on someone  else opinion.

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