LOVE WHAT OTHERS DON'T

STEP 1 :BE THE ONE YOU WOULD .

Now the most of the times I say this I get answers like what is it or like what are you talking about ? And my answer is quite lengthy because I go into a deeper meaning but I am gonna describe to you all in just a simpler way .
The first step to do the first step or to understand is to  jut figure out what you want to be in future , right now at this point many people say I wanna be this or that but some are there (including me (earlier) ) who say how do I would know that what I am gonna do or BECOME in future . The answer is just ask yourself what would you be doing to take care or earn money for your would be family .you will get answers and if get an answer like job(like me) the ask yourself what kind of salary would you need ? After getting answer (my was $6073019) just ask your self or do a research what kind of job is there which pay me that much and most of the times the answer is no (in my case it was no too ,but remember during searching jobs never include jobs like which celibrites do like movie stars ,football player ,etc.)  Now your salary would be quite low as dreamed its okay .
Now match your salary (which would have come down ) with the job which pays that much ,now when you get an answer ,feel like or fast forward your life 10 or 5 years and now imagine yourself with that job . Step 2 of step 1 :this is very crucial step ,meet or connect or know about at least 3 to 5 persons who are doing that job and see their life condition . Now it seems quite cool or quite bad or normal to you but you have to take negative aspects of that job only .
Step 3 of step 1 is :after imagining and realising ask yourself is that where I want to be or imagine the person you met with that job and ask would I love yo be In that kind of job .if answer is yes then you are lucky cause you will be able to tolerate the difficulties and problems of that job and life (result would be such because you have to take the jobs demerits and the persons problem in your place as if you are him and never think about merits )if you are lucky then congratulations you have found your future job and start working for it ,if your answer is know repeat these 3 steps again and again and you will come at a result. 
Now if you have done it all , the next step will guide you to what to do next  which would be released soon if you get this book late then next step would already would be there .
As said by srijan "the word success means win but lose means repeat me and you will find your way through to success "