Me....

What's My "Gender"

Okay..... so, let me start this off with the fact that I hate gender roles.... I despise it! Like, just because I happen to be a 5'3 girl doesn't mean i'm useless or that I have to do what any woman should do and stay in that stereotypical bubble for life. I can ALMOST what any guy can do (with the exception of construction or picking up anything super heavy above 50 pounds...I'll leave that to our strong men haha). Same goes for men though, who said a guy can't wear even the SLIGHTEST of makeup just to feel good about themselves. Or that they can't wax their eyebrows just because they want to feel more "groomed". Ughh, I just had to get that off my chest.

Anyways, I am a female, a PROUD female....who happens to be bisexual, which means I like boys and girls... although I will admit right now i'm more into girls than guys hehe. 

Now, HUGE questions every queer  or bisexual person gets asked.... "How did you find out you were 'this way?' " or "how did you parents react?" and the most triggering of all..... "HOW DO YOU KNOW YOUR NOT JUST GOING THROUGH A PHASE?". Well, that's the nice way people over 30 who are uncultured swines say when in reality they mean BITCH YOU IS CONFUSED!

rude.

Well, let me answer these questions ^^

 I thought about my feeling towards girls in 4th grade from kissing a girl accidentally and somehow liking it, but didn't pay much attention to it until I was in 6th grade. At that moment....I knew I wasn't human lolz.

 I grew up in a very strict religion which strongly opposed same sex marriage and relationships.... I was a Mormon..... (even though Mormons were the first to create polygamy).

Polygamy is something people do that makes them happy, so i'm not against that. I'm not a polygamist but if you are, GOOD for you! you do you dear and let NO ONE tell you how to live your god damn  life. What's so messed up about the Mormon church is that later on when other religions and  nonreligious found out, they  just happen sugar coat it saying, "It was a message of God that was ordained". That is very low of them....

But moving on, because of how shady the church, religion, and teachings were there. I was terrified about telling my mom and stepdad. I didn't know if they would accept me or be mad at me or stuff like that. so I kept it too myself until high school, in 10th grade. January 27, 2018 is the day I came out to my parents, and to my surprise.... they were okay with it. My mom was a bit skepticsl at first because she first of all didn't know anything about the LGBTQ community, she also thought that because I also liked girls... I was somehow becoming into a boy (even though I still like makeup and clothes) hehe. She just  mainly thought I was feeling 'this certain' all of a sudden and thought I was confused. But when I explained to her that I had been feeling this was for quite some time, and that I wasn't trying to become a guy, she understood and not only respected my preference... she still loved, loves, and will forever love me no matter what.

And lastly..... am I confused? am I just going through a phase? or maybe i'm just curious and want to try out new things in life...... well let me answer this question as bold, and as clear as glass,

BEING STRAIGHT WAS MY PHASE BITCH (^^) <3

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